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Do you want her to continue neutralizing all PA hugs
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Yes, please keep doing it |
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No, it’s annoying |
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Mon, Nov 16 2020, 6:51 pm
ExtraCredit wrote: | Do you think it would be a good idea to add a dislike button all over? Would be used in place of a PA hug. | I vote for a dislike button. Master of polls please create a new one. This one worked beautifully.
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amother
Fuchsia
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Mon, Nov 16 2020, 6:58 pm
ExtraCredit wrote: | I assume she meant that she already stopped hugging all over (she gave us her drink) so can we quit this convo already?
Do I get extra credit, fuchsia? |
Yeah. I didn't think her tone was called at this point.
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amother
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Mon, Nov 16 2020, 6:58 pm
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amother
Fuchsia
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Mon, Nov 16 2020, 7:00 pm
amother [ Forestgreen ] wrote: | What is PA |
Passive-aggressive
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Elfrida
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Mon, Nov 16 2020, 7:00 pm
ExtraCredit wrote: | Do you think it would be a good idea to add a dislike button all over? Would be used in place of a PA hug. |
This has been suggested in the past. While Yael is very much against the misuse if the hugs button, I don't think she wants to create a way for people to actively express dislike either. It has a rather negative impact on the atmosphere of the site.
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Mon, Nov 16 2020, 7:01 pm
amother [ Fuchsia ] wrote: | Passive-aggressive | For what it’s worth fuchsia, I’m with you. I think your concept was brilliant. Sorry it didn’t pan out.
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Mon, Nov 16 2020, 7:02 pm
Elfrida wrote: | This has been suggested in the past. While Yael is very much against the misuse if the hugs button, I don't think she wants to create a way for people to actively express dislike either. It has a rather negative impact on the atmosphere of the site. | IMO the current misuse of the hug button has a larger negative impact. But I’m curious what others think.
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Elfrida
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Mon, Nov 16 2020, 7:09 pm
Actively inviting people to express a dislike is not quite the same as providing a positive tool which gets misused. It's more about the way the site is meant to feel. Ideally this should be a helpful, supportive site, not one where we make an effort to put people down.
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yiddishmom
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Mon, Nov 16 2020, 7:11 pm
Wow, I never realized that people pay so much attention to the hug and/or like button. This is probably the 4th thread on the subject matter.
I never know how many hugs/ likes I get. I barley notice them.
Alright, I'll start liking posts more. I would hug, but it's taken in a negative light....
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Mon, Nov 16 2020, 10:53 pm
Fuchsia, I suggest you rather LIKE every post when there's one post liked than hug. That definitely will make everyone feel better, 'oh, atleast one likes what I say'
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ExtraCredit
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Wed, Nov 18 2020, 1:44 pm
Fuchsia are you back at it on the Ami-Chava Shalom thread? A hugger is on the loose there! Choptzem!
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amother
Cerulean
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Wed, Nov 18 2020, 1:59 pm
ExtraCredit wrote: | Fuchsia are you back at it on the Ami-Chava Shalom thread? A hugger is on the loose there! Choptzem! |
Lol. Noticed it in the morning
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Genius
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Wed, Nov 18 2020, 2:05 pm
ExtraCredit wrote: | Fuchsia are you back at it on the Ami-Chava Shalom thread? A hugger is on the loose there! Choptzem! |
you really add spice to my day extra credit
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amother
Fuchsia
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Wed, Nov 18 2020, 2:14 pm
ExtraCredit wrote: | Fuchsia are you back at it on the Ami-Chava Shalom thread? A hugger is on the loose there! Choptzem! |
Just for that, I joined in. On that page on that thread only.
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Wed, Nov 18 2020, 2:16 pm
amother [ Fuchsia ] wrote: | Just for that, I joined in. On that page on that thread only. |
I did get a PA hug there so thanks for having my back. But I’d so much rather have the hugger explain herself than find a bunch of confusing hugs all over. I was genuinely curious what she found wrong with revealing a name that’s in the Ami magazine.
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Success10
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Wed, Nov 18 2020, 2:20 pm
ExtraCredit wrote: |
I did get a PA hug there so thanks for having my back. But I’d so much rather have the hugger explain herself than find a bunch of confusing hugs all over. I was genuinely curious what she found wrong with revealing a name that’s in the Ami magazine. |
I can't envision anyone needing to give you a PA hug, ever.
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Wed, Nov 18 2020, 2:22 pm
Success10 wrote: | I can't envision anyone needing to give you a PA hug, ever. |
Same here that’s why these hugs confuse me.
Jokes aside, I’m not bothered by them I’d just love to understand the reason behind them. Why can’t people just talk?
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Success10
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Wed, Nov 18 2020, 3:04 pm
ExtraCredit wrote: | Same here that’s why these hugs confuse me.
Jokes aside, I’m not bothered by them I’d just love to understand the reason behind them. Why can’t people just talk? |
PA hugs are hurtful. I've gotten them for saying things that are too "frum", or sometimes even just for questioning another viewpoint. The "hug" is such a nice feature in theory, but the way it's being abused makes it not suitable for a frum site, unless someone can find some sort of solution.
But not hugging every other post. Some other solution.
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Wed, Nov 18 2020, 3:14 pm
Success10 wrote: | PA hugs are hurtful. I've gotten them for saying things that are too "frum", or sometimes even just for questioning another viewpoint. The "hug" is such a nice feature in theory, but the way it's being abused makes it not suitable for a frum site, unless someone can find some sort of solution.
But not hugging every other post. Some other solution. |
When you write something controversial and you get a PA hug I understand it’s hurtful. When you write a simple fact and get a PA hug it’s just CONFUSING. Would be so much smarter for the hugger to talk and explain why that post bothered them.
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