When husband and wife aren’t on the same page

amother

Gold

Fri, Dec 04 2020, 3:29 pm

amother [ Jade ] wrote:

Whatever people are blind to the real facts and it’s sad.

Wear your mask and stay SD and beleive that’s protecting you.

I wore a freaking mask for 3 months and haven’t moved out of the house without it and then got Covid.

Time to stop believing all the garbage that Cuomo and his likes are preaching about.
The lies that the media is shoving up our brains.

But if you haven’t realized it until now, you probably will never see it.

You went 3 months longer without catching COVID, and you want us to unquestioningly believe your conspiracy theory?

amother

Jade

Fri, Dec 04 2020, 3:32 pm

amother [ Gold ] wrote:

You went 3 months longer without catching COVID, and you want us to unquestioningly believe your conspiracy theory?

Because for the first 3 months (more like 10 weeks ) myself and my entire household haven’t stepped out of our homes thank you.

And I hve no theories. Just facts.

I read and listen a lot further than Cuomo and fox, NY times has to offer.
I find every piece of info that the media is trying to hide.

You have no idea what they are hiding. They work overtime at it.

They’re hard to find, but out there for whoever wants to open their minds as well.

amother

Jade

Fri, Dec 04 2020, 3:42 pm

amother [ Seafoam ] wrote:

I am aware. And I also know 6 teens in 5 different schools that contracted the virus over the last few weeks. And my friend's fragile father did too and is in the hospital all alone. Flatbush.

Of course because the schools test non stop!!!
Of course some will be positive with all that testing.
Many false positives, but let’s deny that.

amother

Mustard

Sat, Dec 05 2020, 7:04 pm

amother [ Jade ] wrote:

How is it nonsense?

Are you aware that all the heimish communities have simchas and packed shuls, for months already every single night and many of them are unmasked?

And are you aware of how many people are getting covid at these Simcha.
In my family, there was a Simcha a month ago and so many fo the relatives got it. A family member under the age of 30 a young mother landed up on the hospital R"L. The rest of the family members may not have landed I the hospital but that doesn't mean they weren't sick in bed for weeks.
Another family Simcha this week and the calls are coming in again about people who got it following their attendance!

Ita nonsense to pretend these Simcha have no fallout!

amother

Mustard

Sat, Dec 05 2020, 7:06 pm

amother [ Emerald ] wrote:

No one that I know that had the virus in the last while had it major it was all flu like symptoms

Why did his tune change???

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See my post above.

amother

Dodgerblue

Sat, Dec 05 2020, 7:19 pm

It’s incredible what a bubble some people live in. The death rate is rising all over the US to March levels.

amother

Jade

Sun, Dec 06 2020, 12:01 am

amother [ Mustard ] wrote:

Not enough cases to warrant this kind of fear.
(Yes every case is terrible)

There are a ton of packed Simchas every single night in Brooklyn. Multiply that by so many months since June.

The small amount of cases don’t add up.

The fear, otoh, is a huge monster.

amother

Jade

Sun, Dec 06 2020, 12:03 am

amother [ Dodgerblue ] wrote:

It’s incredible what a bubble some people live in. The death rate is rising all over the US to March levels.

And you know that how ? Because cuomo and the daily news said so!!

How many of those deaths are REAL Covid deaths?

How many are lies?
How many are anyway hospice people and also tested positive?
How many are hospital negligence?
How many are accidents and also tested positive?
Etc etc.

We absolutely do not have real numbers.

Open you eyes people!! A tiny bit !

ROFL

Sun, Dec 06 2020, 12:07 am

I guess if it is not your mother or father you can talk like this. But if it hits your family you will be talking differently.

amother [ Jade ] wrote:

yiddishmom

Sun, Dec 06 2020, 12:09 am

I happen to not take the restrictions so seriously, but honestly I think OP's husband is in the wrong.

She allows him to go about his way. She is even letting him go, but said she would stay behind.

A good husband, should stay with his wife for shabbos, if possible. And once he stayed behind, to be passive aggressive??? Not nice!

amother

Jade

Sun, Dec 06 2020, 12:26 am

ROFL wrote:

I guess if it is not your mother or father you can talk like this. But if it hits your family you will be talking differently.

You better take those words back because you have no idea.

GLUE

Sun, Dec 06 2020, 1:16 am

amother [ OP ] wrote:

Anyone else in this situation?

I take corona restrictions seriously, my husband doesn’t.

He goes to shul, goes to community events etc, no masks.

I don’t fight about it, I just do my own thing.

This week he wanted to go away for a big Shabbos with 100+ ppl. I said you can go if you want but I’m not comfortable in that situation.

So we’re staying home but he’s being very passive aggressive about it, complaining about how crazy I am etc etc.

I work in healthcare and it could put my job at risk if they find out I’m flouting COVID restrictions and going to gatherings. He doesn’t care about that.

Unless your husband makes enough $$$ to support you and does not need your income he should not be putting you in a place were you might lose your job.

amother

Mustard

Mon, Dec 07 2020, 10:07 am

amother [ Jade ] wrote:

I disagree.
As does OP obviously, and she is entitled to her opinion.
It doesn't make her a bad person or a bad wife.

If he really wants to go he can go himself.