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ra_mom
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 Mon, Apr 12 2021, 4:34 pm
| amother [ OP ] wrote: | | What Jewish organizations can help with an issue like this? |
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amother
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Mon, Apr 12 2021, 4:58 pm
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This guy is dangerous and potentially violent. She needs to speak to a professional who deals with psychology of people like this. There’s also the book The Gift of Fear that might help
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amother
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Mon, Apr 12 2021, 5:01 pm
| cnc wrote: | | She can get a restraining order. |
Unfortunately she cannot unless he is physically violent, at least in NYS this is the law. Also he can’t be arrested for trespassing unless cops catch him in the act or she has physical evidence. But besides for all this with this kind of behavior a restraining order is often interpreted as a challenge and as a deep insult
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cnc
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Mon, Apr 12 2021, 5:04 pm
| amother [ Tangerine ] wrote: | | Unfortunately she cannot unless he is physically violent, at least in NYS this is the law. Also he can’t be arrested for trespassing unless cops catch him in the act or she has physical evidence. But besides for all this with this kind of behavior a restraining order is often interpreted as a challenge and as a deep insult |
That is not accurate.
Additionally, I would assume that she doesn’t really care if she deeply insults him.
However, it’s not really possible to petition for (and serve him with) a restraining order if she doesn’t know his name and who he is.
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amother
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Mon, Apr 12 2021, 5:09 pm
| cnc wrote: | That is not accurate.
Additionally, I would assume that she doesn’t really care if she deeply insults him.
However, it’s not really possible to petition for (and serve him with) a restraining order if she doesn’t know his name and who he is. |
I wanted to take out a restraining order on a violent neighbor and this is what the cops told me.
Duh obviously she doesn’t care if she insults him. You misunderstood. The idea is that he will interpret a RO as a provocation and there’s a risk he will escalate his behaviors- a RO is not a cure-all.
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PearlyGee
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Mon, Apr 12 2021, 5:57 pm
| amother [ OP ] wrote: | | This is what freaks her out the most! How does he know where she is??? She thinks he must of placed a tracker on her phone or something. |
I would definitely have someone check her phone and vehicle
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FranticFrummie
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Tue, Apr 13 2021, 12:58 am
| amother [ Tangerine ] wrote: | | This guy is dangerous and potentially violent. She needs to speak to a professional who deals with psychology of people like this. There’s also the book The Gift of Fear that might help |
One of my absolute favorite books!
OP, contact this security firm, and see if they have an operative in your friend's area. It will cost money, but it will be worth every penny. They are the BEST at ending situations like this.
https://debeckerinvestigations......html
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