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amother
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 Sun, May 16 2021, 12:36 am
Hi all,
my oldest son is in shidduchim, so I am new at this stuff!
there is one shadchan who set him up with 3 different girls and she really is extra helpful.
Is there such a thing as giving a gift to a shadchan "for trying hard", even if the shidduchim haven't come to fruition yet? or does that sound crazy?
I would love to give her a $50 giftcard. what do you think?
to what kind of store? or what other kind of gift? or will she think I am totally crazy?!
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amother
Mustard
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Sun, May 16 2021, 12:39 am
totally normal!!!!
amazon gift card or even just flowers before shavuos is a nicer choice imho!
so nice of u and may ur soon find his zivug very soon iyh
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amother
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Sun, May 16 2021, 12:50 am
| amother [ Mustard ] wrote: | totally normal!!!!
amazon gift card or even just flowers before shavuos is a nicer choice imho!
so nice of u and may ur soon find his zivug very soon iyh |
amein!
thank you 
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amother
Lawngreen
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Sun, May 16 2021, 1:24 am
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A token of appreciation is always nice. I also sent a devoted shadchan a gift with a nice card. She really appreciated it.
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amother
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Sun, May 16 2021, 1:31 am
I once readt a shidduch to someone and really tried helping them. Unfortunately my suggestions weren't the right fit for them, and I felt a real let down. I wanted to help, I really gave so much of my time and- nothing.
Then they sent me over something to show their sincere appreciation for my 'efforts'. I dont remember what they gave me, but the gesture meant alot to me, I felt appreciated.
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