Home
Log in / Sign Up
    Private Messages   Advanced Search   Rules   New User Guide   FAQ   Advertise   Contact Us  
Forum -> Miscellaneous
Do I join the gift giving club?



Post new topic   Reply to topic View latest: 24h 48h 72h

Rivky




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jun 13 2021, 10:14 am
Hi all. I'm trying to see what the social norm is when it comes to this. I was invited to a simcha and am planning to buy a gift on my own being that I'm a good friend of the bal simcha. There is a group of friends that I'm part of who are pooling some money together to get a gift all together. I'm thinking what the right thing is , to join that part of friends and add my money even though I'm already getting something on my own? It's not a large amount but I'm thinking why would I if I"m anyway getting something myself?
Back to top

eduardo




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jun 13 2021, 10:23 am
If it were me I wouldn’t join. I would only join if that would be my gift. Once I bought something else already I would give that on my own (I don’t need to give 2 gifts..)
Back to top

Sesame




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jun 13 2021, 10:30 am
Don’t need to give twice. Either sounds okay
Back to top

Cherry Blossom




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jun 13 2021, 10:30 am
Giving 2 gifts is basically just caving into peer pressure.
Back to top
Page 1 of 1 Recent Topics




Post new topic   Reply to topic    Forum -> Miscellaneous

Related Topics Replies Last Post
Seeking to send gift package to LKWD from Monsey Sun or Mon
by amother
4 Sun, Apr 21 2024, 8:08 am View last post
Giving tzedaka - standard of living
by amother
16 Fri, Apr 19 2024, 4:53 pm View last post
Gift for my married son that helped me tremdously
by amother
52 Thu, Apr 18 2024, 5:14 pm View last post
by amf
$300 range baby gift ideas
by amother
11 Thu, Apr 18 2024, 12:47 am View last post
What's an appropriate combined gift for new baby and Pesach?
by amother
19 Tue, Apr 16 2024, 5:46 pm View last post