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amother
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Mon, Jul 26 2021, 11:26 am
Just made our first chasunah Chasdei Hashem! My two very close friends are making Sheva Brochos for us, should I give them gifts? Also what about Mesader Kiddushin ? Should we give him a gift or money?
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egam
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Mon, Jul 26 2021, 11:31 am
I’ve made plenty of sheva brochos, never once got a gift, no did I expect it.
We payed our Mesader Kiddushin.
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amother
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Mon, Jul 26 2021, 11:33 am
Mazel tov! I've made many SB's and here's a sampling of the gifts I received,
Fancy chocolates
Nice tablecloth
Runner
Towel set
Vase
Napkin rings
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amother
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Mon, Jul 26 2021, 11:38 am
How much to pay to Mesader Kiddushin ?
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amother
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Mon, Jul 26 2021, 12:30 pm
Would give a gift and offer to make a sheva brachos for them when they need. If their kids are all married and you won't be able to reciprocate, I would get them an expensive gift now if you're able.
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octopus
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Mon, Jul 26 2021, 12:32 pm
Is the sheva brachos their wedding gift?
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s c
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Mon, Jul 26 2021, 12:46 pm
I gave gifts to express my appreciation for all the effort they put into making them for me. I bought expensive vases which I knew were to their tastes. But definitely something to say thank you. If in doubt just send flowers .
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amother
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Mon, Jul 26 2021, 1:15 pm
octopus wrote: | Is the sheva brachos their wedding gift? |
It was their wedding gift, but I am sure they spent way more on SB then if they just gave money - plus so much more effort.
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amother
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Mon, Jul 26 2021, 1:34 pm
Paying the mesader Kiddushin?
It's an honour many dream of getting. They don't get paid where I live
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essie14
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Tue, Jul 27 2021, 12:02 am
Everyone who made us sheva brachot, that was their wedding gift to us. Why would you give someone a gift for them giving you a gift?
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amother
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Tue, Jul 27 2021, 12:18 am
amother [ OP ] wrote: | Just made our first chasunah Chasdei Hashem! My two very close friends are making Sheva Brochos for us, should I give them gifts? Also what about Mesader Kiddushin ? Should we give him a gift or money? |
Depends on your circles. I'm chasidish and it's unheard of by us to give any gift to the person who makes a sheva brochos.
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