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amother
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Sun, Sep 19 2021, 8:08 am
Last week I posted a question about a teen struggling with ZL. I didn't have a chance to check back that day and it has since disappeared, which leads me to assume that it ran amok.
I'm desperate for guidance so if anyone has VALUABLE advice that won't get the thread locked, please post.
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amother
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Sun, Sep 19 2021, 8:09 am
Do you have a rav irl to discuss? Probably best.
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amother
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Sun, Sep 19 2021, 8:10 am
I would find a mentor and/or rav to help guide you in this for best chinuch and success. This is not the address.
Hugs and hatzlocha
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amother
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Sun, Sep 19 2021, 8:11 am
No, DS is mortified about it so I need someone we don't know. I can't ask our Rav.
And I'm sure there are some with experience here. I'm not looking for halachic advice.
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amother
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Sun, Sep 19 2021, 8:12 am
What community are you in? Maybe we can recommend a rav.
We also rabonim about haskafa too because they share the same hashkafa with us.
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amother
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Sun, Sep 19 2021, 8:18 am
I think most of us were horrified that this is something you were discussing with him. Does he have a father, uncle, rebbe he can discuss with him? It seems highly unusual to discuss m*sturbation with ones mother
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amother
Lightcoral
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Sun, Sep 19 2021, 8:20 am
What about Guardyoureyes.com?
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amother
NeonGreen
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Sun, Sep 19 2021, 8:22 am
amother [ Rainbow ] wrote: | I think most of us were horrified that this is something you were discussing with him. Does he have a father, uncle, rebbe he can discuss with him? It seems highly unusual to discuss m*sturbation with ones mother |
Not op, however, It does seem highly unusual, but, when my husband doesn't feel comfortable and I want to clarify some things with my son because otherwise he wouldn't know, I'm the only other address he can turn to. I feel kids boys and girls need to be prepared instead of being shocked and finding out on their own.
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amother
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Sun, Sep 19 2021, 8:29 am
1. Surprising, perhaps, but my husband never struggled in this area so DS feels uncomfortable discussing it with him.
2. He isn't m*bating intentionally. He sometimes gets discharge as a result of various thoughts and he struggles to keep them at bay.
3. I'll check out guardureyes. Thanks.
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amother
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Sun, Sep 19 2021, 8:31 am
Thanks singleagain. I searched for it several times but nothing came up. So weird.
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singleagain
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Sun, Sep 19 2021, 8:32 am
amother [ OP ] wrote: | Thanks singleagain. I searched for it several times but nothing came up. So weird. |
I was following it with email so I was able to find it in my emails.
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amother
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Sun, Sep 19 2021, 8:34 am
Mod, now that I found the other thread you can delete this one. Thanks.
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SYA
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Sun, Sep 19 2021, 8:38 am
You need to report your post with what you want to happen (delete this thread)
Mods don't read every thread and may not see your note in the previous post to delete it
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