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dancingqueen




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Oct 18 2021, 8:09 pm
WaterKissed wrote:
You know, I had the same opinion as you, and when I shared that with my husband he told me that sefarim say that as long as any yid is alive they have a tafkid. And that another yid or ten or a hundred would be mechiyuv to be mechalel shabbos to save her life if necessary. So no, I don't understand, and it seemed like suffering, but Torah and our rabbis know better.


I thought there are some instances where halachicly you do pull the plug?

This story was so sad from beginning to end, bde.
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southernbubby




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Oct 18 2021, 8:30 pm
dancingqueen wrote:
I thought there are some instances where halachicly you do pull the plug?

This story was so sad from beginning to end, bde.


We had to ask the question about my mother OBM but the answer was "no" because she had some brain waves. Usually people who are on ventilators die eventually which is what happened to my mother.
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Blessing1




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Oct 18 2021, 8:38 pm
dancingqueen wrote:
I thought there are some instances where halachicly you do pull the plug?

This story was so sad from beginning to end, bde.

Yes, in some instances. But it's very complex and every case is individual and different.
Some are advised to pull the plug.
Some are advised to sign a DNR.
Some are advised not to seek treatment. Those p'saks are complex and depend on lots of different factors.
I'm assuming that if the Fixlers were fighting so hard for their daughter, then the advice they were given was to fight and do whatever they could to keep her alive. It's such a heart rending & traumatic situation for parents. Hashem yishmor.
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