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pink bow
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Mon, Aug 15 2022, 11:03 am
If she stays alone without her husband how will she get food?? This situation is so crazy…
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amother
Cyclamen
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Mon, Aug 15 2022, 11:11 am
pink bow wrote: | If she stays alone without her husband how will she get food?? This situation is so crazy… |
Plenty of groceries in the country. She could either ask someone with a car to buy things for her or she could ask for a ride when someone with a car goes shopping.
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amother
Lilac
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Mon, Aug 15 2022, 11:11 am
Or she’ll confide in Leah how difficult her husband is being and Leah will come to the rescue with a whole catered shabbos. She’s not going to let go of her vacation so fast.
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amother
Puce
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Mon, Aug 15 2022, 11:41 am
Op if Leah is your "friend" in real life then please dump her and prioritize your marriage.
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amother
Hibiscus
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Mon, Aug 15 2022, 12:20 pm
It’s gonna get a whole lot more crazy before she has any awareness.
The story hardly just started.
When her husband gets angry this week, she doesn’t even understand why.
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pink bow
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Mon, Aug 15 2022, 12:36 pm
If her husband stays home this week..: I’ll be really freaked out
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amother
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Mon, Aug 15 2022, 12:43 pm
Maybe her husband will speak to a rav or someone about their shalom bayis
Hopefully he’ll get guidance and know how to handle her
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pink bow
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Mon, Aug 15 2022, 12:48 pm
He is also speaking very harshly against Leah… there is always a middle way..
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pink bow
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Mon, Aug 15 2022, 12:49 pm
Which is better…
Sunview cottages or crossroads???
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amother
Bisque
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Mon, Aug 15 2022, 3:33 pm
amother OP wrote: | Last week I prepared a comment to tell her with a script response . Went quite well. I casually told her a comment dh had told me. Her reaction was "I dont know how you tolerate such comments bla bla bla" I responded calmly how I actually think dh is coming from a caring place. She just went quiet. At the moment being caught of gaurd leaves me defending myself and sounding stupid at its best. |
Why did you share with your friend a private interaction you had with your husband?
No wonder she steps on you like this. If you don't respect yourself and not husband, why should she respect you & your husband.
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amother
Bisque
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Mon, Aug 15 2022, 3:42 pm
OP, if you know your 'Leah' likes to tear down your DH and thereby your marriage, why do you give her ammunition? Why do you open the door to her and allow her a glimpse of your marriage?
By sharing with her, you feed this dynamic and encourage it.
You've got yourself to blame.
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Bottlebrush
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Mon, Aug 15 2022, 3:50 pm
pink bow wrote: | He is also speaking very harshly against Leah… there is always a middle way.. | 0
I've dealt with a bully before, there's no middle way. There's one way OUT the door and OUT of your life.
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realtalk
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Mon, Aug 15 2022, 5:29 pm
pink bow wrote: | How will she handle this situation… I’m soooo curious… can anyone chime in and guess?? |
I think she’s going to end up with all of the kids and we’ll see more of the other women in the colony trying to step in the separate Rikki and Leah. I feel like Yitzy is stubborn enough to actually not come but it definitely hurts my heart to read
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amother
Gray
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Tue, Aug 16 2022, 12:20 am
Yitzy isn't doing anything wrong. He would be an enabler and doormat if he keeps allowing this to go on.
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pink bow
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Tue, Aug 16 2022, 9:27 pm
Anyone read the ami this week? Is it out yet?
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amother
Cyclamen
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Tue, Aug 16 2022, 10:08 pm
pink bow wrote: | Anyone read the ami this week? Is it out yet? |
Stores first get it on Wednesday
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amother
Pistachio
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Tue, Aug 16 2022, 11:18 pm
I have a feeling that Leah is going to buy that last available house in Lakewood.
Why can’t Riki just be normal?!?!
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amother
Alyssum
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Tue, Aug 16 2022, 11:46 pm
amother Pistachio wrote: | I have a feeling that Leah is going to buy that last available house in Lakewood.
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Interesting! What would be her reasoning?
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pink bow
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Tue, Aug 16 2022, 11:48 pm
She does things without reasoning Imho
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amother
Maize
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Wed, Aug 17 2022, 12:32 am
It will be very embarrassing for Rikki to have Leah's kids if Yitzi stays home. What will the neighbors say it makes no sense. I think she will bribe Yitzy to come up and promise him that next week she will host his parents or she will cancel Leah who will give her the cold shoulder and she will end up fighting with Yitzi all shabbos. I'm also curious what Leah is even doing in that colony it's does not sound her type at all.
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