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-> Rosh Hashana-Yom Kippur
Is it your minhag to fast until chatzos erev RH?
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Yes - men over bar mitzva |
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22% |
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Yes - anyone over bar/bas mitzva |
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5% |
[ 5 ] |
Nope |
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15% |
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Never heard of it! |
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57% |
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Total Votes : 99 |
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amother
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Sun, Sep 25 2022, 12:31 pm
DH family has a minhag that the men fast until chatzos on erev RH. My family never did growing up, trying to figure out how common it is.
Honestly it’s making my day a lot harder 🙈 currently expecting and having a hard time getting the house together and he is only half here…
Edited for typos
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amother
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Sun, Sep 25 2022, 12:34 pm
It’s pretty common, many people who do it don’t talk about it because it’s a personal thing.
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amother
Chicory
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Sun, Sep 25 2022, 12:35 pm
We don't. But this year our community took on for all adults to fast as a zechus for some sick members.
So DH and I are both fasting.
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amother
Teal
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Sun, Sep 25 2022, 12:47 pm
DH is fasting. I’m currently expecting, but either way I’ve never done it.
He is still helping out a lot. I didn’t realize he was fasting until he just mentioned it.
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amother
Salmon
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Sun, Sep 25 2022, 1:02 pm
My husband does it as a remaining minhag from yeshiva days. I didn't even notice it for years- he eats before he leaves for early slichos and has a late lunch.
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amother
Snowflake
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Sun, Sep 25 2022, 1:17 pm
As a little girl, I remember my grandmother (mom's mom) fasting till chatzos on Erev R"H (and also first day of slichos)
My parents and I also fast till chatzos. I'm not sure if all my sisters do.
My husband also fasts till chatzos, and I'm certain my FIL does. I don't know about my MIL.
It's definitely a minhag.
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amother
Cognac
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Sun, Sep 25 2022, 1:24 pm
My husband does it and it doesn't affect his helping around the house. If it did then he wouldn't
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amother
Maple
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Sun, Sep 25 2022, 1:33 pm
amother Catmint wrote: | It’s pretty common, many people who do it don’t talk about it because it’s a personal thing. |
Common in which circles? I’ve never heard of it and neither has my husband s
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amother
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Sun, Sep 25 2022, 1:37 pm
I’m finding this interesting, the poll is definitely leaning heavily towards “never heard of it” but most comments are the opposite.
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amother
Taupe
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Sun, Sep 25 2022, 3:07 pm
Dh did it today. I didn’t vote in the poll because
I don’t thing it’s a minhag for everyone over bar mitzvah rather if someone wants to do it, they do. (My boys are young but I don’t think dh would tell them to fast.)
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amother
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Sun, Sep 25 2022, 3:21 pm
amother Maple wrote: | Common in which circles? I’ve never heard of it and neither has my husband s |
Litvish/ yeshivish
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amother
Pearl
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Sun, Sep 25 2022, 3:26 pm
Yes, I heard of it.
It's not a minhag in my family.
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