Home
Log in / Sign Up
    Private Messages   Advanced Search   Rules   New User Guide   FAQ   Advertise   Contact Us  
Forum -> Inquiries & Offers -> Lakewood, Toms River & Jackson related Inquiries
Lace top letter being mailed anonymously



Post new topic   Reply to topic View latest: 24h 48h 72h

amother
OP


 

Post Sat, Oct 01 2022, 6:45 pm
Anyone else get this letter? I live in westgate
https://I.imgur.com/ofQGeIO.jpg
Back to top

amother
Dodgerblue


 

Post Sat, Oct 01 2022, 6:47 pm
My husband brings in the mail and he throws all tznius letters away before I can see them because he knows what they do to my stress levels LOL
Back to top

amother
Babypink


 

Post Sat, Oct 01 2022, 6:49 pm
So as a Zchus for her tragedies she’s harassing people.
Maybe she should take on her own kabalos instead.
The nerve.

(I don’t believe that the content is real but whatever.)
Back to top

amother
Watermelon


 

Post Sat, Oct 01 2022, 6:52 pm
A common thread between all tznius harassment letters-

All anonymous
All poorly written
Back to top

seltzermom




 
 
    
 

Post Sat, Oct 01 2022, 7:05 pm
And so much easier than working on yourself.
Back to top

amother
Amaranthus


 

Post Sat, Oct 01 2022, 7:14 pm
How do they mail anonymously without a return address ?
Back to top

amother
OP


 

Post Sat, Oct 01 2022, 7:20 pm
So apparently it is targeted because my friends near me who are more Lakewood type didn't get it and my friend who doesn't wear a Shaitel didn't get it but only me and my friends who are the type got it.
Back to top

amother
Orchid


 

Post Sat, Oct 01 2022, 7:21 pm
amother Amaranthus wrote:
How do they mail anonymously without a return address ?
Huh? You never have to mail things with a return address. But most probably it was put into the mail box in a blank envelope. Thats how we get tzedaka envelopes. No name to or from. Just an envelope with content.
What an awfully written letter. And thats from a woman? Sure.
Back to top

amother
Royalblue


 

Post Sat, Oct 01 2022, 7:33 pm
amother OP wrote:
So apparently it is targeted because my friends near me who are more Lakewood type didn't get it and my friend who doesn't wear a Shaitel didn't get it but only me and my friends who are the type got it.


Well since the letter writer gives permission to copy and send to whoever they want, maybe you have a friend or neighbor who thinks you need to see it. Doesn’t necessarily need to be targeted from the original letter writer.

I live in Lakewood too. I don’t believe I’ve ever gotten such a letter. I don’t tend to open mass mailings though.
Back to top

amother
Olive


 

Post Sat, Oct 01 2022, 7:35 pm
amother Watermelon wrote:
A common thread between all tznius harassment letters-

All anonymous
All poorly written

Also, all so obviously made up. Lol.
Back to top

amother
Azure


 

Post Sat, Oct 01 2022, 7:43 pm
amother Olive wrote:
Also, all so obviously made up. Lol.


I don’t find it to be “lol” at all.

It’s pure harassment and people who do this should be prosecuted.
Back to top

amother
Olive


 

Post Sat, Oct 01 2022, 7:49 pm
amother Azure wrote:
I don’t find it to be “lol” at all.

It’s pure harassment and people who do this should be prosecuted.

You are right. I stand corrected.
I guess it only made me laugh because it's written so poorly and is so obviously phony, I can't imagine anyone over the age of maybe 12 take it as a serious letter. Plus, the whiteout with the handwritten correction...looks like someone is secretly writing it in their parents' basement on an ancient typewriter or something...in a hurry so they don't get "caught"
Back to top

Crookshanks




 
 
    
 

Post Sat, Oct 01 2022, 7:51 pm
So trashy. Maybe this makes me a bad person, but I can't handle any lessons or mussar when the spelling and grammar is not up to par. Some people can just take out the content; I can't do that.
Back to top

amother
OP


 

Post Sat, Oct 01 2022, 7:51 pm
amother Royalblue wrote:
Well since the letter writer gives permission to copy and send to whoever they want, maybe you have a friend or neighbor who thinks you need to see it. Doesn’t necessarily need to be targeted from the original letter writer.

I live in Lakewood too. I don’t believe I’ve ever gotten such a letter. I don’t tend to open mass mailings though.


I meant that it's targeted from someone who knows me personally who copied it. Never thought it was the original person.
Back to top

amother
Dodgerblue


 

Post Sat, Oct 01 2022, 8:24 pm
amother OP wrote:
So apparently it is targeted because my friends near me who are more Lakewood type didn't get it and my friend who doesn't wear a Shaitel didn't get it but only me and my friends who are the type got it.
Ewwww. Something is really off about the person who sent it to you.

Maybe you and your husband should adopt my husbands minhag regarding the mail.
Back to top

Growing




 
 
    
 

Post Sat, Oct 01 2022, 10:12 pm
I cant open the image
what's the content of the letter?
Back to top

amother
Daphne


 

Post Wed, Oct 19 2022, 9:30 am
amother Watermelon wrote:
A common thread between all tznius harassment letters-

All anonymous
All poorly written


Poorly written because written by a yeshivish man….
Back to top

Chayalle




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Oct 19 2022, 9:33 am
I would never pay attention to an anonymous letter like that. I would throw it out before reading it. People really read thru such letters?
Back to top

Rappel




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Oct 19 2022, 9:39 am
That's it then, OP.

You have no choice now.

You need to whip off that lace top, and then knock on every door until you find that writer and thank her -- for the sake of tsniyut, of course.
Back to top
Page 1 of 1 Recent Topics




Post new topic   Reply to topic    Forum -> Inquiries & Offers -> Lakewood, Toms River & Jackson related Inquiries

Related Topics Replies Last Post
S/o Top BY school for girl with HFASD
by amother
18 Yesterday at 10:11 pm View last post
Amazon shabbos top
by amother
5 Yesterday at 2:04 pm View last post
ISO sneakers with highish top sneakers
by amother
9 Yesterday at 3:56 am View last post
Skin top wigs
by amother
1 Tue, Mar 26 2024, 11:07 pm View last post
Difference between lace top and lace fall
by amother
4 Tue, Mar 26 2024, 7:15 pm View last post