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amother
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 Tue, Oct 11 2022, 3:02 pm
We dont have a sukka and my husband made elsewhere.
Can I make my own?
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juggling
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Tue, Oct 11 2022, 3:03 pm
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I can't see why not. You're not obligated in sukkah.
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Chickensoupprof
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Tue, Oct 11 2022, 3:05 pm
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amother
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Tue, Oct 11 2022, 3:06 pm
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Im asking its ok for me to make my own?
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Chickensoupprof
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Tue, Oct 11 2022, 3:09 pm
| amother OP wrote: | | Im asking its ok for me to make my own? | Yeah it is ok I do it a lot if DH is running late because he is shmoozing and I want to eat.
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juggling
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Tue, Oct 11 2022, 3:10 pm
| amother OP wrote: | | Im asking its ok for me to make my own? |
Yes you can. Only real question for women is the bracha on the candle. Which is not relevant motzaei Chag in any case.
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amother
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Tue, Oct 11 2022, 3:17 pm
Ok thanks.
I always heard its not ideal for women to make themselves.
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ra_mom
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Tue, Oct 11 2022, 8:28 pm
| amother OP wrote: | | Im asking its ok for me to make my own? |
Yes
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Ema of 5
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Tue, Oct 11 2022, 9:50 pm
Why would it have to be on shehakol?
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Ema of 5
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Tue, Oct 11 2022, 9:51 pm
| juggling wrote: | | Yes you can. Only real question for women is the bracha on the candle. Which is not relevant motzaei Chag in any case. |
Why is making a Bracha on the candle an issue?
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juggling
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Tue, Oct 11 2022, 11:47 pm
| Ema of 4 wrote: | | Why is making a Bracha on the candle an issue? |
Honestly I don't remember the whole reasoning, but there are those who say women should not make that bracha. And therefore some women (eg if they live alone) make a point to hear a man make havdala, rather than say it themselves. However if a woman has no one else to say havdala for her, I think it's generally accepted that she should make it herself.
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essie14
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Wed, Oct 12 2022, 12:18 am
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I made havdalah for myself for many years that I was single. It's fine.
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amother
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Wed, Oct 12 2022, 4:45 am
Yes, Im sure its fine for single women to make themselves.
.I just thought it was more of an issue here because I have a husband and he was even around, but he had already heard havdala elsewhere and he couldnt make cos we have no sukka.
Like it was more of matter of convenience rather then circumstancea this time, but I asked and was told its ok.
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Ema of 5
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Wed, Oct 12 2022, 10:58 am
| amother Banana wrote: | The reason for shehakol, is because drinking havdala wine causes chest hair, and personally, I don’t want that. So if you use shehakol instead you should be safe.
(Of course the Esthetician and Electrologists may prefer wine as it is better for their business)
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This may be what is written somewhere, but there are plenty of women who have made havdala for themselves over the years, and I’m willing to bet that the vast majority of them did not grow chest hair.
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Ema of 5
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Wed, Oct 12 2022, 11:36 am
| amother Banana wrote: | OMG! I am kidding. Do the emoji’s not show up on your screen?
I am mocking the “old wives’ tale” |
I know people who believe this….
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