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I find it really hard to love my son
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amother
Turquoise


 

Post Tue, Jan 24 2023, 3:24 pm
my mom found it hard to love me..
she loved outwardly strong personalities...and I was introspective and sweet.
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amother
SandyBrown


 

Post Tue, Jan 24 2023, 3:30 pm
amother OP wrote:
I can’t believe I’m writing it but it’s true. Hiding

Ds is 6. He’s not the bubbly, cute or witty kid my other children are. It’s not that he doesn’t behave or whine more than other kids, but he’s just not charming. I feel terrible about it, the guilt is eating me up. I try giving him lots of attention and love, but I feel like it’s so fake. What is wrong with me??? A mother is supposed to have unconditional love to her child?? Crying


Talk to a therapist
There could be something about him that triggers something in you from the past that’s painful
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amother
Lily


 

Post Tue, Jan 24 2023, 3:34 pm
Don’t feel guilty. Face your honest feeling. Don’t fight it. You must need this for your tikkun. Once you accept your feelings you’ll be able to work on loving him and liking him from a deep place. It will take work.
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amother
Lily


 

Post Tue, Jan 24 2023, 3:35 pm
amother Turquoise wrote:
my mom found it hard to love me..
she loved outwardly strong personalities...and I was introspective and sweet.

That must be so hard. How did you work it out knowing that reality
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