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Poll: would you/ do you give your kids your code?
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Do you share your phone password with kids?
Yes  
 8%  [ 16 ]
No  
 91%  [ 177 ]
Total Votes : 193



nnmom




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Mar 26 2023, 9:53 am
Do you share your pass code/ password with your kids? Under 12? To your phone or computer?

I’ll answer too, I do not but I have lots of strict boundaries as a parent so I’m trying to gauge what’s acceptable

Feel free to share your perspective why/why not
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amother
Amethyst


 

Post Sun, Mar 26 2023, 9:54 am
1000% not.
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amother
DarkKhaki


 

Post Sun, Mar 26 2023, 9:54 am
No way, never! My kids don't touch our phones.
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amother
Plum


 

Post Sun, Mar 26 2023, 9:55 am
Definitely not. They only use my phone or computer with permission and supervision.

Even though they’re both filtered, btw.
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mha3484




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Mar 26 2023, 9:56 am
Never thats the point of having the password to begin with.
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amother
Begonia


 

Post Sun, Mar 26 2023, 9:56 am
What's the point of the code?
(My kids know not to touch my phone, code or no code. They don't have the code to our tablets or laptop.)
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amother
Aqua


 

Post Sun, Mar 26 2023, 9:56 am
no
never
but aware they may have seen me input it

too much sensitive texts
and too much temptation for a kid
too much high downside risk for a mistake and not any upside

or stuff may pop up randomly

hard no
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amother
Daphne


 

Post Sun, Mar 26 2023, 9:59 am
No. They're the reason I have a password!
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Busybee5




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Mar 26 2023, 10:00 am
Absolutely not!
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amother
Winterberry


 

Post Sun, Mar 26 2023, 10:06 am
Nope it's my personal space.
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nnmom




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Mar 26 2023, 10:07 am
As a follow up
Would you be upset if a trusted adult gave your 9/10yo their code?
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Hashem_Yaazor




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Mar 26 2023, 10:08 am
No and I switch it up and hardly use it myself and opt for fingerprint instead so that they can't pick up on my pin that easily.
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amother
Magnolia


 

Post Sun, Mar 26 2023, 10:11 am
nnmom wrote:
As a follow up
Would you be upset if a trusted adult gave your 9/10yo their code?


Yes. I wouldn’t allow unsupervised access to that person anymore.
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amother
DarkKhaki


 

Post Sun, Mar 26 2023, 10:12 am
nnmom wrote:
As a follow up
Would you be upset if a trusted adult gave your 9/10yo their code?


Yes, very.
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Ema of 5




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Mar 26 2023, 10:12 am
nnmom wrote:
Do you share your pass code/ password with your kids? Under 12? To your phone or computer?

I’ll answer too, I do not but I have lots of strict boundaries as a parent so I’m trying to gauge what’s acceptable

Feel free to share your perspective why/why not

Well, the point of the password or passcode is so that my kids don’t have unlimited access, so sharing with them would be counterproductive.
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BrisketBoss




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Mar 26 2023, 10:14 am
I've never heard of anyone doing this. But some parents do not seem to password protect their phone which is mystifying as well.
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amother
Winterberry


 

Post Sun, Mar 26 2023, 10:15 am
Yes I'd be very upset and I would no longer trust that adult with my child.
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Ema of 5




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Mar 26 2023, 10:22 am
nnmom wrote:
As a follow up
Would you be upset if a trusted adult gave your 9/10yo their code?

Yes!!
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giftedmom




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Mar 26 2023, 10:23 am
nnmom wrote:
As a follow up
Would you be upset if a trusted adult gave your 9/10yo their code?

Yes
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nnmom




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Mar 26 2023, 10:31 am
amother Winterberry wrote:
Yes I'd be very upset and I would no longer trust that adult with my child.



Thank you this is validating
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