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DS10 has very poor boundaries
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mommy3b2c




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, May 04 2023, 9:13 am
amother OP wrote:
Wow there are strong words.
I’m looking to improve as a mother and would not think of myself this way.
Can you please explain?

Re: too many restrictions, some of these happened as a result of losing trust. We used to step away from the computer but he’d download programs without permission or use our credit card to buy something etc.

I’m scared to send him on playdates because he couple potentially use computers in a way he shouldn’t.


I don’t mean to say that you mean to be hurting hi m n this way, but your post sounds extremely rigid and black and white . I suggest you get some real life advice from someone with credentials . Even the best mothers can make terrible mistakes when they are dealing with kids who are not cookie cutter.
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chanatron1000




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, May 04 2023, 9:16 am
When there are too many restrictions for someone to live with, the less important ones make them disregard the important ones.
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amother
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Post Thu, May 04 2023, 9:25 am
mommy3b2c wrote:
It comes across that way. Specifically- “he can’t go to friends houses anymore.”


This is a consequence to him going through his friends parents personal stuff. It only makes sense that he not be allowed to go to other's homes till he learns proper boundaries.
It seems like OP is dealing with an out of the ordinary situation, and your harsh assumptions are hurtful and unnecessary.
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