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amother
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Post Thu, May 11 2023, 10:23 am
agreer wrote:
Yes, 100%.

But it makes sense - if they are flying you in, they get to see you!
You can't be flown home by your MIL and go to your mom for most of the trip.

A gracious MIL won't say anything when her DIL wants to visit her mom or go for a small part of yom tov, but she's correct in assuming that since she paid, she gets to have you more.


No this is very obnoxious. If you have more $$ then good for you but you don't tell a sil/dil that since their parents couldn't afford to pay they don't get to spend their time however they choose. If you don't like it don't pay for the tickets.
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amother
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Post Thu, May 11 2023, 10:26 am
amother DarkMagenta wrote:
This is part of the problem of being dependent on your parents for everything.


Totally infantilizing.
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