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proudmom
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 Mon, Apr 11 2005, 5:15 pm
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My 11 month old constantly pulls my older kids hair, scratches them, and annoys them. What should I do about this? Is she too younge for me to discipline her?
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ForeverYoung
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Mon, Apr 11 2005, 5:38 pm
not too young to discipline -
tell her firmly, no, this hurts. we make nice & demonstrate.
Give her something to do - read a book, colour.
Repeat........ 
She might be looking for attention (now, that she's older, she's probably is not as much in the center as she used to be, right?)
She also could have learned to do this by seing somebody do it 
Or may be she does it when she is hungry, tired, needs fresh diaper...
and ask your older kids to try to be patient with her.
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proudmom
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Mon, Apr 11 2005, 5:44 pm
| Quote: | | She might be looking for attention (now, that she's older, she's probably is not as much in the center as she used to be, right?) |
I have her home with me while the older kids are in school. She is with me till 3 every day. I spend time with her.
| Quote: | | Or may be she does it when she is hungry, tired, needs fresh diaper |
It has nothing to do with that. She just does it. When she is tired or hungry she just cries until I pick her up and take care of whatever is necccessary.
| Quote: | | and ask your older kids to try to be patient with her. |
They are very patient with her. They know that she is a baby and she doesnt know what she is doing.
| Quote: | Give her something to do - read a book, colour.
Repeat........ |
She is too younge to color.
| Quote: | | She also could have learned to do this by seing somebody do it |
I dont think so!
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Tefila
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Mon, Apr 11 2005, 6:04 pm
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She most prob doesn't want to share her mummy w/h anyone-else. And wants to do whatever will get mummy running to her, I had that w/h one of my kids smart ones. Listen just tell her "no pick you up, b/c you hurt, or made boo boo". Hatzlacha and this too will pass.
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roza
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Mon, Apr 11 2005, 7:38 pm
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engage her in activity to direct her energy. blocks, stackers, anything for her age. everytime she finishes to do something, give her something else to do, and so on.
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proudmom
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Thu, Apr 14 2005, 7:28 pm
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I am also worried that when she gets a older she would continue bugging them (I know thats what simblings do)
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Tefila
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Fri, Apr 15 2005, 12:43 am
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At the end of the day she's only 11 months you know
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rydys
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Fri, Apr 15 2005, 11:03 am
| Quote: | | no pick you up, b/c you hurt, or made boo boo |
That's a great line for a 2 year old, but a bit much for 11 months. She will get confused by all the words. Just pick her up, say "NO" firmly and put her away from the other kids. She will go right back over, but will get the message.
It will take a while for the message to totally sink in, but she will get it.
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proudmom
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Fri, Apr 15 2005, 1:20 pm
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She thinks right now everything is a big joke. she laughs at everything. I tell her no and she laughs.
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raizy
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Wed, Apr 20 2005, 11:41 pm
leave the poor kid alone she is after all only 11 months. just tell her no. pick her up deposit her in a nother direction and give her new toys. and forget about it. no u do not need a therapist to sort this out..... 
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