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Trying to avoid listening to Loshon Hara



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amother


 

Post Tue, May 31 2005, 11:47 am
I have this situation. I am trying so hard not to listen to loshon hara. But the problem is everyone comes to me with all their problem about another person. What am I suppose to do? What
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1stimer




 
 
    
 

Post Tue, May 31 2005, 1:10 pm
Is it letoeles?
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proudmom




 
 
    
 

Post Tue, May 31 2005, 1:29 pm
what does that mean
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1stimer




 
 
    
 

Post Tue, May 31 2005, 1:37 pm
Briefly, the chofetz chaim outlines 7 conditions when lashon hara is for a constructive purpose and is allowed.
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amother


 

Post Tue, May 31 2005, 1:43 pm
Original amother here, so this is not considered loshon hara?
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1stimer




 
 
    
 

Post Tue, May 31 2005, 2:15 pm
I don't know, but study the laws of the conditions. It is not so simple.
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Tefila




 
 
    
 

Post Tue, May 31 2005, 2:31 pm
Also the next question is why r they coming to u?
There r some people who won't approach othersa with loshon hora b/c they know the other person is not an easy listener
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IM-MA




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Jun 01 2005, 1:18 pm
Tell your friend to post her problems with others on imamother.com Smile
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Pearl




 
 
    
 

Post Fri, Jun 03 2005, 3:48 am
or maybe they approach her because they trust her to be honest and reliable?

maybe if you only listen but don't react at all, they will stop coming to you eventually....
as some ppl come with lh, in order to get reaction, and then the chainreaction of lh
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