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amother




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Post  Tue, May 15 2018, 11:06 pm
amother wrote:
Op, you really need to ask your parents or I lnlaws for help. You mentioned your in laws have lots of money. You don’t need to ask them for tzedakah, ask them for a loan. They will likely help you so you’re not hungry. This is a level of poverty no one can watched a loved one experience. I think you need to put your pride aside and get help from the people who know you. Perhaps your Inlaws can help your dh get his act together.


They have loaned us a small amount of money in the past and it was a very big deal for them . I feel very uncomfortable asking and my husband refuses. They live in their own world and would not understand why we cant be self sufficient on our own. Some people are just not givers...
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amother




Beige


Post  Wed, May 16 2018, 4:24 am
"Most of our meals are protein(chicken, fish) and fresh veggies, and our monthly food bill is way under $200. "

how??? do you have a farm, you go fishing and plant your own veggies?
how can a family of (how many are you?) eat chicken/fish and fresh veggies dayly and spend only 200 dollars per month? 200 devided by 30 is under 7 dollars per day.



if you are lucky, buy in bulk/on sale you might be able to feed 2 people rice/beans + fruit, noodles in tomatosauce+ cucumber or eggtoast with belpeppers for that money (we like all these dishes Smile ). but chicken and lets say stirfry vegetables cost much more where I live.

please teach me your trick!
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amother




Salmon


Post  Wed, May 16 2018, 11:55 pm
amother wrote:
"Most of our meals are protein(chicken, fish) and fresh veggies, and our monthly food bill is way under $200. "

how??? do you have a farm, you go fishing and plant your own veggies?
how can a family of (how many are you?) eat chicken/fish and fresh veggies dayly and spend only 200 dollars per month? 200 devided by 30 is under 7 dollars per day.



if you are lucky, buy in bulk/on sale you might be able to feed 2 people rice/beans + fruit, noodles in tomatosauce+ cucumber or eggtoast with belpeppers for that money (we like all these dishes Smile ). but chicken and lets say stirfry vegetables cost much more where I live.

please teach me your trick!


Maybe she lives in Israel where it’s cheaper? Not sure. But I don’t.
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amother




Black


Post  Thu, May 17 2018, 12:18 am
I am in a similar situation. Maxxed out all ccs. Just trying to pay for basics forget about the "other" bills on the table...
I will say athough I have stressful moments I also feel so much closer to Hashem. I feel like we did the hishtadlus we needed to do and Hashem wants to give us things in a more "heavenly" fashion rather than a "normal" fashion.
I feel like he is feeding us directly instead of through the wordly channels.
This situation definitely finds me constantly talking to Hashem very emotionally and I am feeling quite close to Him. He is sending me occasionally these random unexpected sources of Parnassa in little bite size increments and in a very unpredictable way.
Just sharing my own life and thoughts.
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amother




Salmon


Post  Thu, May 17 2018, 12:23 am
amother wrote:
I am in a similar situation. Maxxed out all ccs. Just trying to pay for basics forget about the "other" bills on the table...
I will say athough I have stressful moments I also feel so much closer to Hashem. I feel like we did the hishtadlus we needed to do and Hashem wants to give us things in a more "heavenly" fashion rather than a "normal" fashion.
I feel like he is feeding us directly instead of through the wordly channels.
This situation definitely finds me constantly talking to Hashem very emotionally and I am feeling quite close to Him. He is sending me occasionally these random unexpected sources of Parnassa in little bite size increments and in a very unpredictable way.
Just sharing my own life and thoughts.


Thank you for sharing. I appreciate the chizuk and hope to have as much emunah like you do someday soon. I feel Hashems presence. I’m just not sure why I have to go through such a hard nisayon. I am trying so hard to do the right thing and being 100% honest and emesdik in my snap application and other financial decisions.
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