I wish... | Imamother

amother

Jetblack

Sun, May 27 2018, 7:39 am

...that I was the most beautiful woman in the world. Who's with me?

amother

Burgundy

Sun, May 27 2018, 7:41 am

Not at all
Too much attention
But I wish I can lose 40lbs

thunderstorm

Sun, May 27 2018, 7:43 am

No, not me. Very very beautiful women actually have a very hard time . Men drive them crazy and they have a hard time just being themselves without all that extra attention.

amother

Pearl

Sun, May 27 2018, 7:49 am

I like being valued for my intellect and skills. I am involved in community advocacy and have been told way too often to "just remember to smile!". The men in the group were given no such direction. Oh, and I am average looking.

amother

Jetblack

Sun, May 27 2018, 8:03 am

amother wrote:

why op? what do you think it will give you?

strong sense of confidence and happiness

Kiwi13

Sun, May 27 2018, 8:03 am

amother wrote:

strong sense of confidence and happiness

Maybe wish (and work toward) those things directly then?

amother

Jetblack

Sun, May 27 2018, 8:04 am

thunderstorm wrote:

No, not me. Very very beautiful women actually have a very hard time . Men drive them crazy and they have a hard time just being themselves without all that extra attention.

men wouldnt drive me crazy I'm very quiet, a homebody and very very tzanuah in action and behavior etc

allthingsblue

Sun, May 27 2018, 8:04 am

amother wrote:

strong sense of confidence and happiness

It won't. Confidence and happiness come from within.

amother

Jetblack

Sun, May 27 2018, 8:05 am

Kiwi13 wrote:

Maybe wish (and work toward) those things directly then?

tried and wasn't able to

amother

Jetblack

Sun, May 27 2018, 8:09 am

allthingsblue wrote:

It won't. Confidence and happiness come from within.

ye but if my wish wld come true it would be a whole lot easier to get it from within

amother

Ivory

Sun, May 27 2018, 8:19 am

amother wrote:

...that I was the most beautiful woman in the world. Who's with me?

Why do you need to be the most beautiful. Would you be ok just being pretty? Maybe you are. I'm just wondering bc I could understand a woman wanting to be pretty, just don't get the wanting to be the most beautiful.
These most beautiful women probably have a hard time when reaching 60.

flowerpower

Sun, May 27 2018, 8:24 am

Once the genie comes and grants you that wish maybe you'll be "happy" for a day, week... month at most then you're "happiness" will wear off. You'll start to feel empty inside. Work on inner beauty. That can last a lifetime.

amother

Orchid

Sun, May 27 2018, 8:31 am

Nope, not at all. I'm happy with the beauty I was given, I just wish it wasn't buried under so many layers of fat.
If I lost a lot of weight (and I mean A LOT) I think I'd be very beautiful.

amother

Slateblue

Sun, May 27 2018, 8:34 am

I am considered to be quite pretty, I'm told about it all the time
My confidence is really low, my in laws objectify me all the time, I really don't see how beauty helps with self esteem.
I maybe enjoyed hearing, wow, you're beautiful the first and third time, but by now, it's annoying.
I would say being pretty is a bonus, but definitely not something that would drastically make anyone happier.
And an average looking ,smiling, neatly dressed woman who walks with a straight, confident gait, is definitely more attractive than the other way around .

amother

Floralwhite

Sun, May 27 2018, 8:41 am

I just wish for smooth skin. I HATE the constant breakouts and scars and bumps that come and go but never all go away at the same time.

OP you deserve some nice makeup and clothing and statement earrings and necklaces. Have you treated yourself to anything lately? And if you google stars without makeup, you'll see that most of what the world considers beauty is just a fabulous makeup artist and styling.

naturalmom5

Sun, May 27 2018, 8:52 am

I wonder if I could find it on YouTube

A long time ago. Perhaps in the 70s in my grandmas apt I was watching ABC after school childrens special

One show sticks out in my mind
This girl is very miserable thats she's very plain

So poof she's a beautiful cheerleader and a lot of boys are trying to sxlly assault her

That doesn't work out. So she wants to be the most popular. Poof she is but too much drama

Then she wants to be the smartest. Problems with that too.

In the end she reverts to what she was to begin with. She is the most happy just being herself

simba

Sun, May 27 2018, 8:57 am

crust wrote:

I am.

I am not (even though my parents and dh will tell you I am!)and I am still confident and happy. My physical appearance does not define me.

amother

Sapphire

Sun, May 27 2018, 9:02 am

I would definitely wanto be pretty (prettier than I am already) just because. I don't think it would make me happier though. BUT I REALLY DON'T WANTO BE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL. NO THANKS