My son is almost 4. At tipat chalav (Israel), they wanted him to draw with a marker holding it in the pincer grasp (as opposed to his whole fist). I thought that comes later. My son can't write like that yet. Has anyone experienced this? Did it come later, or did he need some kind of extra help? Any way I can help him get it? I tried to put his fingers around the marker correctly, but it was awkward for him and he went back to coloring with his fist. I'm thinking to have him use tweezers to pick things up. Anything else that might help?