Joy or Burden? | Imamother

heidi

Sun, Nov 25 2018, 6:14 pm

amother wrote:

No it should put things in perspective for people who aren’t grateful for what they have and even see it as a burden. No I’m thankful I’m not suffering from infertility and I would never complain that having kids is a burden. I think it’s awful to say I think it’s a slap in the face to HKBH who blessed you with the greatest gift a child and I don’t think anyone should say it. Don’t think the kids won’t get that message transmitted to them either.

Are you freaking kidding me?
As part of my job I have to deal with anorexic children.
Doesn't make me one drop happier to be obese.

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Sun, Nov 25 2018, 6:39 pm

קליינע קינדר קליינע דאגות גרויסע קינדר גרויס דאגות
Little kids little worries. Big kids big worries. Yes we love our kids and yes they are our pride and joy but- we worry and the worry is the burden. You are normal it’s o.k. Especially in today’s generation where even big rabbonim say that they are glad that their child rearing days are behind them.