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amother
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 Mon, Dec 03 2007, 1:09 pm
Hi,
I just recently sponsored a full time nanny and wanted to give her a X-mas bonus. She's been with me for 8 months, just wondering what most people give. I'm planning to give $100 (cash) plus a gift. Any thoughts?
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nicole81
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Mon, Dec 03 2007, 1:14 pm
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I think I gave my daughter's babysitter $150 and she had only been with us for 4 months.
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momo2boys
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Mon, Dec 03 2007, 1:16 pm
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$100 "plus" a gift sounds fine
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Racheli
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Mon, Dec 03 2007, 1:28 pm
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In the NY area, I think one week's salary is the standard minimum.
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Clarissa
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Mon, Dec 03 2007, 3:22 pm
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I don't have a nanny, but I give my cleaning woman (who comes every other week) one week's salary. That's pretty standard for nannies, cleaning women, etc.
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mummiedearest
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Mon, Dec 03 2007, 3:46 pm
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just curious, has anyone else here heard of a halachic issue with giving a x-mas bonus/present? I have heard it's better to give an "end of year" gift or something that does not specifically celebrate the holiday.
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Lani22
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Mon, Dec 03 2007, 3:53 pm
| mummiedearest wrote: | | just curious, has anyone else here heard of a halachic issue with giving a x-mas bonus/present? I have heard it's better to give an "end of year" gift or something that does not specifically celebrate the holiday. |
What diffrence does it make? just hand her an envelope with bonus and say happy new yr instead of happy holidays.....
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mummiedearest
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Mon, Dec 03 2007, 4:06 pm
you're asking me? the only difference I can see is between saying "merry x-mas" and "happy new year."  it's something I've heard of and was wondering if anyone has heard the same...
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cassandra
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Mon, Dec 03 2007, 4:10 pm
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one week is the minimum standard, I usually give two weeks salary as a bonus.
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Clarissa
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Mon, Dec 03 2007, 4:43 pm
| mummiedearest wrote: | | just curious, has anyone else here heard of a halachic issue with giving a x-mas bonus/present? I have heard it's better to give an "end of year" gift or something that does not specifically celebrate the holiday. |
I had a boss who didn't give end-of-year bonuses because he was Jewish. He was married to a non-Jew and wasn't particularly Jewish except in name, but he conveniently became Jewish when it came to bonus time.
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cassandra
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Mon, Dec 03 2007, 4:56 pm
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Yes, and my dh reaps the benefit of end of the year bonuses, so I feel as though I should spread the wealth...
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Clarissa
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Mon, Dec 03 2007, 4:59 pm
| cassandra wrote: | | Yes, and my dh reaps the benefit of end of the year bonuses, so I feel as though I should spread the wealth... |
You're so lucky. My husband doesn't get a bonus. And I doubt my kids are going to give me one.
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