So you run your life based on how other people will feel?
How about how YOU will feel, your husband, and the baby in question when she grows up?
So sad to care so much what other people think and it sounds really unhealthy and a lack of boundaries that they would be "livid"
Please reconsider.
Thank you for your concern but my husband loved her and it would be a real pleasure and an honor for the baby to have her name. I want to make everyone happy including myself that’s why I’m looking for a nickname I love! My DH loves the name in itself.