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amother
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 Wed, Sep 25 2019, 12:57 am
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Does your husband love you or his mom more?
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amother
Tangerine
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Wed, Sep 25 2019, 12:59 am
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amother
Scarlet
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Wed, Sep 25 2019, 1:37 am
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Used to be his mom, until recently, with the help of intensive therapy, he started loving me more bh!
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tweety1
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Wed, Sep 25 2019, 2:16 am
I hope that me. I never really asked him. Never even gave it a thought 
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amother
Apricot
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Wed, Sep 25 2019, 2:23 am
Me more than his mom.
But he might love his father more than me.
Not love as in romantic love, but, and I can't believe I'm saying this, but you did ask - if he'd had to save either me or his father from drowning, he may save his father.
But I would never ask him!
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yc
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Wed, Sep 25 2019, 2:26 am
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This is a strange question. Its apples and oranges. Anyone wondering this is probably newlywed. A better question would be who he favors in disagreements etc. Love of a mother vs wife can not be compared!
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Ruchel
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Wed, Sep 25 2019, 4:56 am
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It's not comparable. Yet behavour wise the Torah itself says what to do
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FranticFrummie
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Wed, Sep 25 2019, 5:05 am
Such a weird question! Who do you love more, your mom or your kids? DH or your mom? Your favorite aunt, or your child who gives you the most challenges?
Everyone loves everyone in different ways.
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watergirl
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Wed, Sep 25 2019, 8:11 am
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Its a different kind of love. My husband loves his mother differently than he loves me. We all have different love for different types of people in our lives.
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gold21
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Wed, Sep 25 2019, 8:28 am
I'm not in competition with my MIL for his love.
I hope my boys will iyh love me when they're married. And their wives. Both, different ways.
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amother
Hotpink
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Wed, Sep 25 2019, 8:35 am
The first 10 yrs his mom
Now me
B”H she lives a 9 hr plane ride away
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amother
Rose
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Wed, Sep 25 2019, 8:40 am
Both but many times it is more his mom, I don't know if he loves her more, I think she cant let go...
An example of DH showing more interest, Yesterday we each had a very busy day and I send him a message of something important (didnt want to disturb) waitied 5 min for reply when suddenly he got a group message from his mom and he replied straight away, it hurts...
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amother
Honeydew
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Wed, Sep 25 2019, 8:42 am
He loves chocolate ice cream!
Seriously though, grow up my DH loved his mom & he loves me & he loves our kids.
Kids don’t stop loving their parents when they marry. It’s different relationships. Do you love your husband more than your father?
C’mon you’re not 2 years old.
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amother
Mistyrose
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Wed, Sep 25 2019, 8:44 am
Me more than his mom bh.
I used to tell him these kinds of love jokes abt his mom because they are super close. He always gets super insulted..
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nchr
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Wed, Sep 25 2019, 8:46 am
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He loves us both, but I'd be lying to say that his mother is not more special to him. That is fine with me - I love her too!
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amother
Bisque
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Wed, Sep 25 2019, 9:02 am
I find this topic hilarious for some reason 
He loves us both. Its not really a competition. Shed beat me in the kitchen id beat her on the runway 
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amother
Silver
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Wed, Sep 25 2019, 9:04 am
| amother [ Rose ] wrote: | Both but many times it is more his mom, I don't know if he loves her more, I think she cant let go...
An example of DH showing more interest, Yesterday we each had a very busy day and I send him a message of something important (didnt want to disturb) waitied 5 min for reply when suddenly he got a group message from his mom and he replied straight away, it hurts... |
Sometimes you see a text and think, Ok and forget to actually text a response. Or maybe the topic was more interesting in the chat than what you wanted to discuss with him. Maybe he's nervous his mother will be upset if he doesn't respond to her. Could be a lot of things that have nothing at all to do with his love.
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Laiya
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Wed, Sep 25 2019, 9:10 am
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No relationship can replace another. The question is based on a faulty premise.
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amother
Ginger
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Wed, Sep 25 2019, 9:10 am
| amother [ Rose ] wrote: | Both but many times it is more his mom, I don't know if he loves her more, I think she cant let go...
An example of DH showing more interest, Yesterday we each had a very busy day and I send him a message of something important (didnt want to disturb) waitied 5 min for reply when suddenly he got a group message from his mom and he replied straight away, it hurts... |
There's a mitzva of kibbud aim in the torah. He might have been busy but responded anyway because it was his mother!
Usually wife is more undertanding if husband is busy and doesn't respond right away!
Doesn't mean anything about him loving you less!
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