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amother




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Post  Tue, Oct 15 2019, 9:25 pm
I need to separate from my irate enraged husband since he traumatises my youngest who is still home. All the others left.
Seeking clean 1 bedroom with no mice/roaches, etc. In bklyn. Can be a basement if it's clean, bright and pleasant.
I am not contemplating divorce at present.
First need peace and space to think.
He is not violent and will not ever make a scene or threaten anyone.
Please advise.
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amother




Dodgerblue
 

Post  Tue, Oct 15 2019, 9:40 pm
Call Ohel. 718-851-6300. Ask for intake office. They have a shelter where you can there for 2-3 months to help you figure out your life.
Make sure that you have your finically and his finical information figured out.
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amother




Teal
 

Post  Tue, Oct 15 2019, 11:06 pm
I have no experience but someone wrote this in another thread. Legally the person who leaves may be at a disadvantage if it comes to dividing assets for divorce? And separation starts from day left? I don't know. But don't do anything rash before you know legal ramifications.
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amother




Burgundy
 

Post  Tue, Oct 15 2019, 11:36 pm
amother [ OP ] wrote:
I need to separate from my irate enraged husband since he traumatises my youngest who is still home. All the others left.
Seeking clean 1 bedroom with no mice/roaches, etc. In bklyn. Can be a basement if it's clean, bright and pleasant.
I am not contemplating divorce at present.
First need peace and space to think.
He is not violent and will not ever make a scene or threaten anyone.
Please advise.


First you say he’s irate and enraged, and traumatized your kids and then you say he’s not violent, won’t ever make a scene or threaten? Somethings wrong with this picture.
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Cheiny




 
 
 
 

Post  Tue, Oct 15 2019, 11:37 pm
amother [ Teal ] wrote:
I have no experience but someone wrote this in another thread. Legally the person who leaves may be at a disadvantage if it comes to dividing assets for divorce? And separation starts from day left? I don't know. But don't do anything rash before you know legal ramifications.


If they own a home together, the spouse who leaves can be legally considered as abandoning their share of the house.
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amother




OP
 

Post  Wed, Oct 16 2019, 12:29 am
He IS irate and enraged.
He is not violent however and will not make a scene in public.
I included that so that no one will feel uncomfortableto rent an apartment to a lady with a crazy husband who will show up and make a scene, because he'll never do that.
His graciousness is reserved only for his own family, inside the home.
We don't own any thing and I'm not planning to divorce. I want a place to breathe, to rest and a peaceful place to come home to after a long day at work. A place that will be a safe zone for my children.
I was hoping someone might know of an apartment.
Thank you all for your responses.
Ohel is for domestic violence I believe. His outbursts are verbal only.
Thanks.
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amother




Saddlebrown
 

Post  Wed, Oct 16 2019, 2:32 am
Verbal abuse is a type of domestic violence. Try ohel of they cant help you maybe they'll find someone else who can
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cnc




 
 
 
 

Post  Wed, Oct 16 2019, 2:36 am
amother [ OP ] wrote:
He IS irate and enraged.
He is not violent however and will not make a scene in public.
I included that so that no one will feel uncomfortableto rent an apartment to a lady with a crazy husband who will show up and make a scene, because he'll never do that.
His graciousness is reserved only for his own family, inside the home.
We don't own any thing and I'm not planning to divorce. I want a place to breathe, to rest and a peaceful place to come home to after a long day at work. A place that will be a safe zone for my children.
I was hoping someone might know of an apartment.
Thank you all for your responses.
Ohel is for domestic violence I believe. His outbursts are verbal only.
Thanks.


Verbal abuse is still considered domestic abuse.
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amother




Magenta
 

Post  Wed, Oct 16 2019, 3:00 am
amother [ OP ] wrote:
He IS irate and enraged.
He is not violent however and will not make a scene in public.
I included that so that no one will feel uncomfortableto rent an apartment to a lady with a crazy husband who will show up and make a scene, because he'll never do that.
His graciousness is reserved only for his own family, inside the home.
We don't own any thing and I'm not planning to divorce. I want a place to breathe, to rest and a peaceful place to come home to after a long day at work. A place that will be a safe zone for my children.
I was hoping someone might know of an apartment.
Thank you all for your responses.
Ohel is for domestic violence I believe. His outbursts are verbal only.
Thanks.


I'm so sorry you're going through this.

Verbal outbursts are also a form of abuse. The fact that you want to find a safe spot without them is surely a telling sign is it not?

I wish you much Hatzlacha and clarity!
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Rappel




 
 
 
 

Post  Wed, Oct 16 2019, 3:58 am
amother [ Teal ] wrote:
I have no experience but someone wrote this in another thread. Legally the person who leaves may be at a disadvantage if it comes to dividing assets for divorce? And separation starts from day left? I don't know. But don't do anything rash before you know legal ramifications.


I'm pretty sure OP has thought this over, and has come to the conclusion that this is the best course.

Hatzlacha OP! May you find strength, clarity, and healing.
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amother




OP
 

Post  Wed, Oct 16 2019, 4:09 pm
thank you to everyone for your supportive caring responses.
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amother




Bronze
 

Post  Sun, Oct 27 2019, 12:44 pm
OHEL is still your best bet. They help the best and verbal issue is enough a reason to qualify. Please call asap. If you have a house together as a lawyer. If you rent just do it
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