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Fri, Oct 18 2019, 12:18 am
Blonde, it seems like the op made up her mind about what she wants to do. As long as she is not asking you to sponsor it, why make her feel bad about her choices? I don't think it's appropriate for an anonymous poster on ima to make a woman second guess herself when all she is doing is dressing her little girl adorably. With her own money.
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Fri, Oct 18 2019, 12:37 am
amother [ OP ] wrote: | I think everyone chooses to spend money as they see fit.
For the record- And I really don’t understand why I need to justify myself. I got a clothing budget for the Simcha, my little kids from someone quite difficult that insists on having the babies there. I can’t donate the money nor get myself groceries with it. I will give her receipts or have her order the stuff (hence it’s easier if it’s online). If I can find something she’s happy with that’s cheaper yay but this is all crazy enough- the wedding is in israel etc etc that I am not looking to make this hard on myself. My own gown costs less than this to rent. But alas it was also far easier to find something she likes!
We live on a budget and do not spend this kind of money. But I don’t begrudge those that do. Most of them give so much more to tzedaka as well. (Those that get tzedaka for it are a whole nother topic being hashed out in other threads).
And FF just because you started this and I dont feel comfortable pming you...I donated my weekly ‘Shabbos treat’ money to help you recently. And was so happy because bh that’s my priorities and that’s where my money goes first. When iyh one day I have more. I hope to give tzedaka and be able to get a mani or flowers as well and not feel bad about it! |
Good for you for defending yourself. It really sickens me the attitudes on here of people who can’t Fargin others. Whatever happened to mind your own business?
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Fri, Oct 18 2019, 12:38 am
What are your boys wearing? What size are they? I have 2 gold vests that my boys wore to a recent wedding under a black suit. PM me
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Fri, Oct 18 2019, 12:41 am
amother [ OP ] wrote: | Please stay out of my finances. Thanks.
Sorry for being snarky, but this post was written in a similar tone...
Thank you to those that have ideas. I have officially stopped looking for anything and will just deal with the havoc that will ensue or find something last minute running around- this thread was really awful to read. Don’t know why ppl judge and begrudge others so much- I drive a Toyota but don’t spit at ppl who drive Lexus. Bh for them! |
Hope you find something yummy and that you will get beautiful pictures. Mazel Tov to your simcha!
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Fri, Oct 18 2019, 11:31 am
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Fri, Oct 18 2019, 11:34 am
Omg! Just read some other posts. Really? OP is an adult and didn’t ask you for financial advice. She asked for help finding a specific colored baby outfit for a color scheme she most likely didn’t pick herself and is doing it for the family photo so that her parents can enjoy it. Why all the judgment and criticism?
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