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amother
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Post Sun, Jan 26 2020, 6:05 am
Does a besamim holder qualify as a gift for DH?
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flmommy




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jan 26 2020, 6:09 am
Depends on your DH. It could be a family gift or something he would love.
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zaq




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jan 26 2020, 3:26 pm
What is your question? Did someone send you one, or are you looking to buy one? Are you going to be insulted if s/o sent you one for your anniversary, because you think it’s for dh and excludes you, or are you planning to send one to s/o and fear the dw may be insulted because she’ll feel left out? Or do plan to buy one for dh and fear he may think it’s a gift “for the house” and not for him?
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amother
Tangerine


 

Post Sun, Jan 26 2020, 3:27 pm
my son got one for his bar mitzvah we still use it
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amother
Linen


 

Post Sun, Jan 26 2020, 3:48 pm
My DH enjoys silver items, so I bought him a silver besamim holder for our first anniversary. He appreciated it.
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amother
Blue


 

Post Sun, Jan 26 2020, 5:50 pm
amother [ Linen ] wrote:
My DH enjoys silver items, so I bought him a silver besamim holder for our first anniversary. He appreciated it.


Who polishes it?
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Cheiny




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jan 26 2020, 5:50 pm
amother [ OP ] wrote:
Does a besamim holder qualify as a gift for DH?


Yes absolutely as he’s the one who makes havdalah.
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doctorima




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jan 26 2020, 6:35 pm
amother [ OP ] wrote:
Does a besamim holder qualify as a gift for DH?


It depends on your DH (just like any other present). My DH would NOT be happy with a besamim holder for his birthday, Chanuka, or anniversary.
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amother
Linen


 

Post Sun, Jan 26 2020, 10:31 pm
amother [ Blue ] wrote:
Who polishes it?


Unfortunately, our silver does not get polished frequently TMI But whoever ends up busting out the silver polish would take care of it.

In general my husband does more household cleaning than I do.
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