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momtra
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 Sat, Feb 29 2020, 8:29 pm
Hi - I know everyone has their own budget... but what is a range of a monetary bar mitzvah gift.
It is a nephew- our family is going for shabbos.
Any reference as an amount would be helpful.
TIA
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amother
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Sat, Feb 29 2020, 8:32 pm
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Depending on the crowd, maybe $50-$100.
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amother
Seafoam
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Sat, Feb 29 2020, 9:03 pm
| amother [ Lawngreen ] wrote: | Depending
on the crowd, maybe $50-$100. |
If she is invited to all the meals that is very little.
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amother
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Sat, Feb 29 2020, 10:04 pm
We need more details.
When we, a family of 5, went to a bar mitzvah of a nephew, we gave around $200.
We were 5 people, not 10.
We had fewer than 15 nieces/nephews combined.
It really depends on how big the families are, so you can give approx the same to all.
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boysrock
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Sat, Feb 29 2020, 10:04 pm
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We do $50 a family towards a silver store
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momtra
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Sat, Feb 29 2020, 10:04 pm
| amother [ Seafoam ] wrote: | | If she is invited to all the meals that is very little. |
So what would your guess be?
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mommyhood
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Sun, Mar 01 2020, 12:03 am
I give the same to all my nephews whether I’m invited for Shabbos and weekday or just one event.
I’m curious if people give more for a wedding gift if they’re also invited to the aufruf or Shabbos Sheva Brachos.
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amother
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Sun, Mar 01 2020, 1:49 am
| mommyhood wrote: | I give the same to all my nephews whether I’m invited for Shabbos and weekday or just one event.
I’m curious if people give more for a wedding gift if they’re also invited to the aufruf or Shabbos Sheva Brachos. |
Agreed.
When people invite you to a Shabbos weekend, it's because they want you there. You're giving a gift for the simcha, not for how many meals were eaten.
I'd give $100 for a bar mitzvah, $150 for a wedding.
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momtra
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Sun, Mar 01 2020, 3:03 pm
Thank you all.
Very helpful!
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