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amother
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Fri, Mar 27 2020, 9:50 am
I purchased a Kate Spade handbag and matching wallet online during their Surprise Sale at an excellent price, but at final sale. For various reasons, I changed my mind and put up the handbag for sale on eBay, figuring I'd keep the wallet or put it up for sale at a later time. I was anxious to get it out in time, even though I don't have a printer and had difficulty finding a printer to print the label. I usually print at the public library (closed) or dh prints for me at work (closed). I finally got someone to print it for me and ran to the post office to ship it yesterday. I must have been so overwhelmed that I forgot to make sure that the handbag was completely empty, and I believe the wallet is still inside.
I can't get to myself. . I'm trying to tell myself that it should be a kapara and it was meant to be, but am wondering if anyone here has any suggestions, if there's anything at all I can still do. I paid about $97 for both the handbag and wallet together after tax. I sold the handbag for $77 before eBay fees (still not sure how much eBay will deduct). I know that it's typical to sell things at a loss and I should be grateful that I paid so little so that I could recoup my money even if it didn't actually work out that way due to my blunder, but I'm still very upset. Anything I can do? Should I message the buyer that she should ship it back if I send her a prepaid label, or send me $25-30, or should I just let it go?
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amother
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Fri, Mar 27 2020, 9:55 am
I think you meant message the buyer - and yes you should ask her if she'll ship the wallet back to you.
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amother
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Fri, Mar 27 2020, 9:56 am
amother [ Khaki ] wrote: | I think you meant message the buyer - and yes you should ask her if she'll ship the wallet back to you. |
You're right, I edited
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amother
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Fri, Mar 27 2020, 9:58 am
amother [ Khaki ] wrote: | I think you meant message the buyer - and yes you should ask her if she'll ship the wallet back to you. |
By me sending her a label? And what if she doesn't actually do it? Then I sustain another loss of the label? Or am I only charged for a label if it's actually used?
She may also deny that it was there, because truthfully, I have no way of knowing with certainty that it was inside.
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amother
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Fri, Mar 27 2020, 10:06 am
You could try to tell her what happened and see if they send it back. Send her a prepared label right away!
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amother
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Fri, Mar 27 2020, 10:24 am
Just checked PayPal. Unless eBay will still charge me additional fees, looks like the total I was paid for the transaction was $74 after fees and shipping.
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amother
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Fri, Mar 27 2020, 10:27 am
amother [ OP ] wrote: | By me sending her a label? And what if she doesn't actually do it? Then I sustain another loss of the label? Or am I only charged for a label if it's actually used?
She may also deny that it was there, because truthfully, I have no way of knowing with certainty that it was inside. |
message her. tell her what you think happened. ask her if she has the wallet. ask her if she'll send it back to you if you provide shipping.
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notshanarishona
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Fri, Mar 27 2020, 10:51 am
You can ask the buyer but it's up to her if she wants to agree/be honest about it and you can't really do anything about it. Be prepared you might get negative feedback for your mistake .
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amother
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Fri, Mar 27 2020, 10:59 am
You can ask her to ship it back but you certainly can't ask her to pay extra money for something she didn't order and wasn't planning on buying.
If I were the buyer and was sent a shipping label I would send it back, but honestly, with social distancing now it might be quite awhile before I'd be willing to go to a post office or ups to drop it off. So there's also that factor, unfortunately.
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amother
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Fri, Mar 27 2020, 11:39 am
I'd let it go.
You didn't love the wallet. You're loosing a potential $20-$25 on the resale of the wallet (minus the fees). Not worth setting yourself up for aggravation of massaging with buyer and then her possibly not sending it anyway.
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