amother
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Sun, Mar 29 2020, 2:35 pm
amother [ cornflower ] wrote: | I don't know the halachot for a parent, which are different, but it might behoove you to inquire about them.
My dad and his sister had the most horrible relationship. She was older and abusive toward him. When she died, we all kept it from him until after the sloshim passed, so that he didn't have to sit shiva..... (this was prediscussed with him and his Rav and as per his wishes- we had been notified when she was on hospice which made it a little easier to control).
Parents are different, because there is a year of avelut, but find out. |
Thanks. I don't feel comfortable asking about it, but even if I did, my family would never respect my wishes (and DH doesn't screen every phone call and email from them). So it's moot.
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