Home
Log in / Sign Up
    Private Messages   Advanced Search   Rules   New User Guide   FAQ   Advertise   Contact Us  
Forum -> Working Women
Who to vent to if not dh



Post new topic   Reply to topic View latest: 24h 48h 72h

amother
OP


 

Post Mon, Oct 12 2020, 10:17 pm
I want to quit (or at least vent to dh) but I never had his support for this job in the first place. Not like he'll be "I told you so" but he will be frustrated if I then stick it out bc he was never supportive to begin with.

I want to even just say "I don't want to go to work tomorrow" and it's killing me to hold it in.

Also, I know I can obviously always quit, but I don't feel responsible doing that.
Back to top

rachel6543




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Oct 12 2020, 10:22 pm
You find a trusted friend, family member or find a therapist to vent to.

And if the job is not a good for (& you can financially afford it), then it is definitely okay to quit & find something else.

Good luck!
Back to top

amother
Indigo


 

Post Mon, Oct 12 2020, 10:31 pm
Right here on imamother. Who would even think of venting to DH if you have imamother.
What specifically don’t you like about the job?
Back to top

amother
Lavender


 

Post Mon, Oct 12 2020, 10:55 pm
definitely a therapist. I talk to a therapist regularly about work issues - helps me get through it. No one else understands, and if I talk to my husband he takes it like I'm telling him to work harder and that I'm blaming him that I have to work. Therapy is good.
Back to top

zaq




 
 
    
 

Post Tue, Oct 13 2020, 6:56 am
If you’re already in therapy why not tell your therapist about it, but this is hardly a situation that calls for the big guns. All OP needs is a friend or a sister.
Back to top

Ruchel




 
 
    
 

Post Tue, Oct 13 2020, 7:03 am
If you have a therapist that's the best for neutral outlook

DH would also make me quit if I dreaded it
Back to top
Page 1 of 1 Recent Topics




Post new topic   Reply to topic    Forum -> Working Women

Related Topics Replies Last Post
Pesach Allergy Vent
by amother
13 Thu, Apr 18 2024, 1:25 am View last post
Have to redo everything! Vent
by amother
10 Mon, Apr 08 2024, 8:20 pm View last post
Major vent
by amother
15 Fri, Apr 05 2024, 9:11 am View last post
Tuition vent
by amother
26 Mon, Apr 01 2024, 12:44 am View last post
Coworker vent
by amother
10 Fri, Mar 15 2024, 11:04 am View last post