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Do you feel you’re part of the stigma?



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yo'ma




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Oct 22 2020, 7:48 am
Whether it’s where you live or whatever. Do I have to clarify what I meant or it’s clear?
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ChanieMommy




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Oct 22 2020, 7:53 am
yo'ma wrote:
Whether it’s where you live or whatever. Do I have to clarify what I meant or it’s clear?


Honestly: I don't understand your question...
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amother
Orange


 

Post Thu, Oct 22 2020, 7:54 am
No. Absolutely not B"H.
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amother
Saddlebrown


 

Post Thu, Oct 22 2020, 7:59 am
I'm not sure what you mean, I'm guessing visibly Jewish in an anti semetic area. I'm not visibly Jewish, and I live in Israel anyway, so no.

I do feel like these days regular healthy people are being looked at as Possible Virus Spreaders instead of human beings, and I'm wondering how we let ourselves get to this.
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yo'ma




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Oct 22 2020, 8:28 am
ChanieMommy wrote:
Honestly: I don't understand your question...

Sorry! I’ll give an example. Maybe stigma wasn’t the correct word. People generalize all the time or there’s a stigma like in Brooklyn, everyone is not friendly. So, my question is, like if you live in Brooklyn, are you not friendly? Not that specific thing, but that idea. Clearer?
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ChanieMommy




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Oct 22 2020, 8:33 am
yo'ma wrote:
Sorry! I’ll give an example. Maybe stigma wasn’t the correct word. People generalize all the time or there’s a stigma like in Brooklyn, everyone is not friendly. So, my question is, like if you live in Brooklyn, are you not friendly? Not that specific thing, but that idea. Clearer?


Oh, I see...

Yes, I suppose I am...

To stick with your example: not welcoming - I have been on both sides of the fence...

It happened to me that I was disappointed because people in a community were not welcoming, acted as if I was not there...

But it also happened to me that I did not notice people who wanted to be noticed....
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Cherry Blossom




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Oct 22 2020, 10:03 am
Everyone puts everyone else down. They are the closed minded people.
I say, do your thing, stop trying so hard. Just learn to accept others way of life and don't be judgemental.


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flowerpower




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Oct 22 2020, 11:12 am
You mean if people judge me Only because They see that I am ultra orthodox when they meet me for the first time, then totally.
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amother
Tan


 

Post Thu, Oct 22 2020, 11:24 am
flowerpower wrote:
You mean if people judge me Only because They see that I am ultra orthodox when they meet me for the first time, then totally.


And do you judge them because you see they do not belong to your community?

Because that's the kind of look I used to get when I attended "ultra-orthodox" or mixed events: from top to bottom and back to top, and then turning away without saying hello...
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flowerpower




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Oct 22 2020, 11:39 am
amother [ Tan ] wrote:
And do you judge them because you see they do not belong to your community?

Because that's the kind of look I used to get when I attended "ultra-orthodox" or mixed events: from top to bottom and back to top, and then turning away without saying hello...


Never!!! I guess you don't know me
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