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Do you want her to continue neutralizing all PA hugs
Yes, please keep doing it  
 13%  [ 13 ]
No, it’s annoying  
 86%  [ 84 ]
Total Votes : 97



amother
Fuchsia


 

Post Mon, Nov 16 2020, 4:45 pm
Stubborn, maybe. But what can I do? We Jews are made that way.
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Success10




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Nov 16 2020, 4:45 pm
amother [ Fuchsia ] wrote:
No, because being annoyed isn't the same as being deeply hurt and singled out. If I were selfish, I'd just say "if you can't beat em, join em" and hug posts I don't like.


You had good intentions. But thanks for taking the feedback and stopping.
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ExtraCredit




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Nov 16 2020, 4:46 pm
amother [ Fuchsia ] wrote:
Why selfish? How does this benefit me personally in any way?

Selfish because you think it’s right and it makes you feel good.
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amother
Fuchsia


 

Post Mon, Nov 16 2020, 4:47 pm
BTW, I consider the title "Is someone in need of love?" kind of passive aggressive, because it kind of didn't sound like anyone was offering.
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amother
Fuchsia


 

Post Mon, Nov 16 2020, 4:47 pm
ExtraCredit wrote:
Selfish because you think it’s right and it makes you feel good.

Everyone has to do what they think is right. It simply doesn't make sense to do what one doesn't think is right.
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ExtraCredit




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Nov 16 2020, 4:47 pm
amother [ Fuchsia ] wrote:
Stubborn, maybe. But what can I do? We Jews are made that way.

It’s good to be stubborn if you use it when it’s appropriate to be stubborn. I agree.
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amother
Fuchsia


 

Post Mon, Nov 16 2020, 4:48 pm
And no, it doesn't make me feel good.
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amother
Fuchsia


 

Post Mon, Nov 16 2020, 4:48 pm
ExtraCredit wrote:
It’s good to be stubborn if you use it when it’s appropriate to be stubborn. I agree.

That's not called agreement.
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ExtraCredit




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Nov 16 2020, 4:48 pm
amother [ Fuchsia ] wrote:
Everyone has to do what they think is right. It simply doesn't make sense to do what one doesn't think is right.

Not if everyone else is getting annoyed by it.
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amother
Fuchsia


 

Post Mon, Nov 16 2020, 4:49 pm
It doesn't make sense to expect people to do what they believe to be wrong.
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Elfrida




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Nov 16 2020, 4:50 pm
amother [ Fuchsia ] wrote:
Everyone has to do what they think is right. It simply doesn't make sense to do what one doesn't think is right.


Sometimes relying on what one thinks is right is not appropriate, and one has to take advice and try to see a wider view to judge if it is really right or not.

I'm glad you have taken the majority opinion into account rather than insisting that what you feel is right has to be right.
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ExtraCredit




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Nov 16 2020, 4:50 pm
amother [ Fuchsia ] wrote:
That's not called agreement.

We’ll continue squabbling later. My kids need some love now. Love you too! Heart Ice cream
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ExtraCredit




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Nov 16 2020, 4:52 pm
amother [ Fuchsia ] wrote:
BTW, I consider the title "Is someone in need of love?" kind of passive aggressive, because it kind of didn't sound like anyone was offering.

That was a different thread and I offered tons of love in the OP there.
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amother
Fuchsia


 

Post Mon, Nov 16 2020, 4:53 pm
Elfrida wrote:
Sometimes relying on what one thinks is right is not appropriate, and one has to take advice and try to see a wider view to judge if it is really right or not.

No, advice and trying to take a wider view may affect what you think is right, but it's still weird as heck to go against your own beliefs.
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amother
Fuchsia


 

Post Mon, Nov 16 2020, 4:53 pm
ExtraCredit wrote:
That was a different thread and I offered tons of love in the OP there.

With what level of sincerity?
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Elfrida




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Nov 16 2020, 4:54 pm
amother [ Fuchsia ] wrote:
No, advice and trying to take a wider view may affect what you think is right, but it's still weird as heck to go against your own beliefs.


It's called maturity.
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amother
Fuchsia


 

Post Mon, Nov 16 2020, 4:59 pm
Um, no.
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amother
Fuchsia


 

Post Mon, Nov 16 2020, 5:00 pm
A mature person's beliefs may be based on different viewpoints. But once those beliefs exists, a person cannot be true to him or herself and go against them.
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amother
Fuchsia


 

Post Mon, Nov 16 2020, 5:01 pm
Living with a high level of cognitive dissonance is not maturity.
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amother
Magenta


 

Post Mon, Nov 16 2020, 5:06 pm
Can someone please explain what’s going on? Wasn’t on imamother for the last few days but I’m so curious what this is all about.
TIA
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