Are your hands full by dr sora yaroslawitz

amother

Sat, Nov 21 2020, 3:49 pm

hi I'm considering buying her book but just want to first hear if anyone is happy with it?
I'm willing to work hard...

behappy2

Sat, Nov 21 2020, 6:20 pm

It's not a comprehensive parenting approach. It is just for behavior. It is also very specific and does not work well for every parent child duo. Also doesn't work well for a parent with physical limitations.

pizza4

Sat, Nov 21 2020, 6:30 pm

I bought it a bunch of years ago and then gave it away. Didn't work for me at all, very behavior focused and requires lots of dedication to the program, includes ignoring all tantrums, time out, hand over hand to make the child do what you asked... and then you will have the perfect well behaved child. Also you can do it only one child at a time.
The pictures though are pretty cute.

crust

Sat, Nov 21 2020, 7:00 pm

I like many individual things that Sarah sais.

The method as a whole seems like a version of ABA.

I don't understand how a person that has done inner work can do this.

I also don't know how any parent can do this and remain close to his/her children.

ExtraCredit

Sat, Nov 21 2020, 7:03 pm

I heard her talk on Akeres habais probably 10-15 years ago. Never tried her method because found it too rigid for my nature but I remember one line of hers and love it. “Don’t make a fuss if it’s not a chuppah problem. No one goes to their chuppah with a pacifier, or eating peanut butter bread for breakfast lunch or dinner, so don’t sweat the small stuff...”

mommyto3RN

Sun, Mar 24 2024, 11:08 am

I know this is an old thread… I’m looking to buy the vol 1 book and it is out of stock anywhere. Would anyone be willing to sell theirs? I’ll pay for the shipping as I’m OOT. Thank you!

amother

DarkOrange

Mon, Mar 25 2024, 12:03 am

mommyto3RN wrote:

I know this is an old thread… I’m looking to buy the vol 1 book and it is out of stock anywhere. Would anyone be willing to sell theirs? I’ll pay for the shipping as I’m OOT. Thank you!

I'm sorry it won't help you but just saw this book in the lakewood public library this week, in case anyone else is looking!
Do you ever come to lakewood?

amother

DarkOrange

Mon, Mar 25 2024, 12:06 am

mommyto3RN wrote:

I know this is an old thread… I’m looking to buy the vol 1 book and it is out of stock anywhere. Would anyone be willing to sell theirs? I’ll pay for the shipping as I’m OOT. Thank you!

It says on their website it will be available at the end of march!

mommyto3RN

Mon, Mar 25 2024, 12:20 am

Can you post a link for the site?
I don’t come to Lakewood often no, I’m across the country 😊

amother

DarkOrange

Mon, Mar 25 2024, 7:17 am

mommyto3RN wrote:

Can you post a link for the site?
I don’t come to Lakewood often no, I’m across the country 😊

https://www.handsfullchinuch.c.....ormat
Mp3 format is available (but expensive!!)

amother

Forestgreen

Mon, Mar 25 2024, 9:38 am

mommyto3RN wrote:

Can you post a link for the site?
I don’t come to Lakewood often no, I’m across the country 😊

If it's available in the Lakewood public library, you can probably get your library to order it shipped to you. As long as you're in the US. Most libraries have agreements like that.