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Mon, Nov 23 2020, 1:45 pm
I think when it comes to mental health you have to specialize in a specific niche that others in your area dont and really develop relationships with referral sources. I sent my son for years to a masters level counselor who specialized in boys in the yeshiva system. He knows the ins and outs of all the Elem schools and mesitvos in town, he knows what the expectations are, what behaviors are tolerated and what is considered a no go and the schools respect his opinion a lot. I felt that the therapy was targeted to helping my son be socially successful and it worked. I paid him 95 an hour and he had a full full case load and low overhead. Small office very unfancy no employees. I think he charges more now. Its nothing to sneeze at.
My friend took her son to a therapist specializing in anxiety disorders and selective mutism and it was a fortune. That is all he sees all day and he gets results. He used a very specific method that other therapists who see more general issues dont know.
I think therapists who spend the time and money developing a real area of specialization do better then ones that try to open a general practice and see a little of everything. Most therapists in my city seem to pick a direction and see those patients. If you look in our local phone book there is someone who sees mostly teen girls and women, someone who sees DV victims, substance abuse, marital issues, one woman specializes in patients post illness. Very few have a general practice. I think patients dont want to see that kind of therapist.
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amother


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Mon, Nov 23 2020, 4:14 pm
amother [ Navy ] wrote: | I keep seeing these threads focused on how much people make, and make no mistake I'm not saying it's not important, but I feel like quality of life is more.
Some people make 200k and it's not enough and their quality of life suffers, some people make an average amount but have tranquility, calm home and routine.
Life is more, it's about spending quality time with your family and friends, being able to take a walk in the park, just saying. |
Of course quality of life is more important than income. Income is a means to an end for 99% of people, not an end in itself.
But in my experience, there is a lot of correlation between earning potential and quality of life, at least in the United States. It's actually quite unfair in my opinion and unfortunate, but nonetheless real. It's not merely about the cash coming in every month, but all the privileges that often accompany the high earning potential.
Up to a point of course. Going from very high earning to merely high earning does often result in much better quality of life. But going from high earning to low earning is, in my opinion, more likely to be detrimental to quality of life, though individual circumstances will always create exceptions.
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amother


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Mon, Nov 23 2020, 4:21 pm
amother [ Dodgerblue ] wrote: | Of course quality of life is more important than income. Income is a means to an end for 99% of people, not an end in itself.
But in my experience, there is a lot of correlation between earning potential and quality of life, at least in the United States. It's actually quite unfair in my opinion and unfortunate, but nonetheless real. It's not merely about the cash coming in every month, but all the privileges that often accompany the high earning potential.
Up to a point of course. Going from very high earning to merely high earning does often result in much better quality of life. But going from high earning to low earning is, in my opinion, more likely to be detrimental to quality of life, though individual circumstances will always create exceptions. | Yes, it really becomes an issue when high earning is not enough and people want to make more and more and forget why they make money in the first place. Of course high earning to very low earning is not a fair comparison, but some people choose to have enough and have time, while others are so busy making more and more for retirement and keeping up with their neighbors that they forget what life is all about!
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