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amother
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 Sun, Nov 29 2020, 1:10 pm
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flowerpower
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Sun, Nov 29 2020, 1:11 pm
| behappy2 wrote: | | I actually use this forum to learn about myself, push boundaries and grow. So this forum helps me be the best version of myself here and out in the world. I've changed a lot since I first started posting here. |
Wow! That is interesting! How did you change? Give some examples
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paperflowers
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Sun, Nov 29 2020, 1:15 pm
| amother [ Green ] wrote: |
The difference here versus in person, is that here people are asking for input, or advice and if I have an idea I will offer it up. The dynamic off screen is different. People are not necessarily as open to advice or opinions, so I normally hang back from offering them. So while I am bold here in speaking up, it is because of the nature of the interactions, not so much my personality. |
Very good point.
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LovesHashem
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Sun, Nov 29 2020, 1:16 pm
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I love meeting new people in real life. I'm a super extrovert but I definitely need time to recharge and get overwhelmed after socializing for long periods of time. But I still love it and seek out ways to talk to strangers lol
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SuperWify
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Sun, Nov 29 2020, 1:28 pm
It’s strange. I’m an extrovert-introvert.
When I’m with friends I’m the life of the party.
But I don’t need need to be out every night. I do need alone time every single night though. 1-2 times a week socializing is good for me.
And I hate phone shmoozing.
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behappy2
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Sun, Nov 29 2020, 1:28 pm
| flowerpower wrote: | | Wow! That is interesting! How did you change? Give some examples |
Listen better
More thought out
More confident
Able to let go of other ppls opinions of me
(I assume I am not unique in this)
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LovesHashem
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Sun, Nov 29 2020, 1:29 pm
| SuperWify wrote: | It’s strange. I’m an extrovert-introvert.
When I’m with friends I’m the life of the party.
But I don’t need need to be out every night. I do need alone time every though. 1-2 times a week socializing is good for me.
And I hate phone shmoozing. |
Same. Ugh I couldn't go out every night. I need lots of me time.
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silverlining3
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Sun, Nov 29 2020, 2:14 pm
| SuperWify wrote: | It’s strange. I’m an extrovert-introvert.
When I’m with friends I’m the life of the party.
But I don’t need need to be out every night. I do need alone time every single night though. 1-2 times a week socializing is good for me.
And I hate phone shmoozing. |
Basically explains me.
Though have 2 lives, more introvert before marriage and more extrovert after.. Nowadays, when I meet people from my old life I automatically become introverted, and I will try to avoid that. I missed a party last week.
I don't know if me time is a MUST for be I I very much enjoy being locked in my bedroom with no pressure do anything.
And yes, I hate hate phone schmoozing 1 on 1. With a group-conference I'm way better, sometimes even enjoy it.
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4g01o
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Sun, Nov 29 2020, 2:21 pm
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I'm quite a sociable person in real life.
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