There I said it !I want to look hot !

amother

Wed, Dec 02 2020, 10:47 pm

Tell me what it feels like to look in the Mirror and see someone fit and hot smiling back at you !
I have been dieting for so long for what???? to fit into a XL instead of an XXXXL whoopeeee me
It’s shallow it’s dumb BUT I want to look skinny hot and pretty
I want my husband to have a wife that feels good and looks good !and with my body image issues he ain’t getting that
So tell me hotties what’s it like ?????

amother

Sapphire

Wed, Dec 02 2020, 10:52 pm

Gonna have to go anon for this but...
I am very thin. Skinny mini! And I wish I can hotter... because I’m pretty much flat on top. I did find a 32A super push up bra that almost makes me look like cleavage exists but it’s mighty uncomfortable so it gets saved for special occasions.

I say, if you want to look hot, buy some sxy lingerie and embrace your curves!

amother

Salmon

Wed, Dec 02 2020, 10:52 pm

OP what’s funny is that I used to be a hottie when I was a teen, but at the time I still thought I was fat and ugly lol go figure we just gotta be happy with what we got

ExtraCredit

Wed, Dec 02 2020, 10:53 pm

I certainly look hot when I look into the mirror. Sweat is always dripping down into my triple chin just from walking up a flight of stairs. Hot indeed! 🥵

amother

Cyan

Wed, Dec 02 2020, 10:55 pm

There's always room for improvement. I am very fit but I may notice any other imperfection.
Working on appreciating and focusing on the here and now!

amother

Floralwhite

Wed, Dec 02 2020, 10:57 pm

I totally get you.

In my experience though, when I lose the weight, my face becomes so narrow and severe.

Ain't nothin hot about that, man.

I'm ten lbs away from my goal... but now I'm not sure it's a good idea to get there! (My goal is modest- my bmi range should be in the normal range)

amother

Wed, Dec 02 2020, 11:03 pm

Tnx everyone but I’m not talking about improving my already semi hot body ...
I am over 200 pounds not fit so nope not hot !!!! Sad

Ahhhhhh I wanna be a hottie
I would then be so jolly
I would wear cute little dresses
And walk around flicking my long tresses
Will it ever happen to me
Or is seeing a fatty in the mirror my destiny

O to be a skinny little mini ....sigh,huff (from exhausting my pudgy fingers on my keyboard )
Sigh,huff,puff
Now Let me go eat some more stuff

amother

Peach

Wed, Dec 02 2020, 11:17 pm

amother [ OP ] wrote:

Do u just want to dream about what it’s like? Or do u really want it? If u want it u can set a goal and start eating healthy and exercising and you’ll get there. I lost 62 lbs and can’t believe how much happier I am and can’t forget how miserable I was with the weight.

ExtraCredit

Wed, Dec 02 2020, 11:17 pm

Oh how I wish that I’d be real hot,
To get rid of the flab and the chins that I got,
They say I’m a smarty.
The life of a party,
But a pretty ‘lil hottie is one thing I’m not!

amother

Ginger

Wed, Dec 02 2020, 11:29 pm

amother [ Peach ] wrote:

How did you do loose it?
I am desperate to do something and stick to it.

honeymoon

Wed, Dec 02 2020, 11:31 pm

amother [ OP ] wrote:

Tnx everyone but I’m not talking about improving my already semi hot body ...
I am over 200 pounds not fit so nope not hot !!!! Sad

You may not be hot but you certainly are funny!

amother

Seagreen

Wed, Dec 02 2020, 11:47 pm

I’m thin and pretty but doesn’t make you happy. Keep eating healthy and take care of yourself. You’ll feel empowered just by being on top of your health. Even if you would get thin don’t think that that’s the nekuda that will make you feel good about yourself.
I’m sure you are extremely well liked. I can tell from your post you have personality and you’re funny. And seems like you embrace yourself.
Go you

amother

Lilac

Wed, Dec 02 2020, 11:54 pm

I’m long and lean, have abs, a thigh gap, perky tuchas, but I wouldn’t consider myself “hot”. I always look tired and/or sick, my face is gaunt, dark purple under eye circles, I’m very pale, my lips have no color. Basically, I look as sleep deprived as I am, and it ain’t hot. It probably distracts from my body.

amother

Thu, Dec 03 2020, 12:28 am

Thanks everyone !
If I ever do reach my goal
And look like a skinny pole
What would I do with all my extra time??
When I would no longer need to cry and whine

Seriously though ..,I know it’s shallow and people in real life would be so surprised if they knew how much it consumes me ! But what o what do I do ??

And please don’t say diet
Cause if it’s a diet I can assure you I tried it!

I also went the healthy lifestyle way
And that made the pounds pile up oy vey ....

It stops me from being confident,makes me avoid meeting people from past (I can’t see their faces ooooo wow I didn’t know she was thatttttt fat)

And in a twisted weird way makes me act annoyed and distant with hubby
:(cause I’m embarrassed for him to be seen with me his dear wife mrs chubby

Am I nuts ?probably am! it’s making me batty ....
To bad I don’t lose weight from crying or I wouldn’t still be a fatty

amother

Bronze

Thu, Dec 03 2020, 12:50 am

I used to be hot!
And now I’m really not!
I used to watch my weight
But now all I do is eat cake!
But when I was really hot,
I was a mom not!
My mental health was not at stake
If I wouldn’t have that Kokosh cake.
And now with all the kids on top
We need to bring the eating cop
Maybe then I’d look great
And get a “hottie” rate
As of now I can’t seem to stop
Eating out of my yummy pot
So my body I accept with grace
I hope it suits my DH’s taste
Because I am me, and always will be
Weather I’m hot...
Or not!!!

amother

Powderblue

Thu, Dec 03 2020, 1:39 am

I lost about 55lbs 3 years ago and BH feel great. I did shani taub and followed her guidelines to a t. My chest got smaller and I still have a little flab here and there, but I’m still glad to be slim. I used to just feel so big and hopeless so I ate more cake cuz what’s the difference. Now I try to make healthier choices, I stick to the basic Shani taub guidelines, with a few cookies here and there.

First you need to decide that you want to lose weight and that you CAN lose weight.

Then you need a plan. A nutritionist etc.

Then you need to be determined to stick to that plan, no matter what.

And celebrate each tiny victory!!

We all believe in you. You can do this. I’m sure you’re beautiful, but you say you wish you were hot. You can be hot and you will be hot! You go girl!

Just FYI a few of my family members did the Keri diet and lost tons of weight. Have u tried Keto?

amother

Azure

Thu, Dec 03 2020, 2:46 am

So - when I was normal BMI, we were on vacation and met a lady who definitely wasn't skinny! But I looked washed-out and casual and she always looked elegant, totally put-together and stunning. Immaculate sheitel, make-up, jewellery (and probably nails too).

She wore black clothes with brilliant-colored accessories, and was a wonderful example of how to make the best of yourself. You can do this, OP - "hot" comes in many different temperatures Wink