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Wed, Dec 30 2020, 3:10 pm
I would just forget about it with no guilt at all. I didn’t know sending an invitation was code for “give me presents” until I joined Imamother. It may be an age thing. If you want to get a gift I’m sure the couple won’t be upset about a check even a year later.
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Wed, Dec 30 2020, 3:11 pm
amother [ OP ] wrote: | I just feel (I live in LA) it’s considered here very rude. |
If you feel it's rude. You can always send a token gift. Even a year later.
I remember somebody saw me about a year after I got married and said "oh I still have your wedding gift it's sitting in my hallway" and I actually told them "you can keep it or return it I'm getting divorced"
I don't think more than a year out is incredibly rude In fact it'll probably be really nice for them to get something
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