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amother




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Post Thu, Jan 21 2021, 11:24 am
When you have guests and your husband makes kiddush, does he sip from his becher first, then pour from his cup into the little cups?
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amother




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Post Thu, Jan 21 2021, 11:27 am
Of course he first pours out for everyone before sipping.
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naturalmom5




 
 
 
 

Post Thu, Jan 21 2021, 12:06 pm
Chasidim very often show achdus and comradery by all sippI ng from sipping from same cup
( hopefully pre Pandemic)

Litvish and yekkish never did that
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amother




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Post Thu, Jan 21 2021, 12:08 pm
naturalmom5 wrote:
Chasidim very often show achdus and comradery by all sippI ng from sipping from same cup
( hopefully pre Pandemic)

Litvish and yekkish never did that


I'm chassidish and I've never seen non family members drinking from the kiddush cup. Most people pour kiddush into little cups for everyone. We've eaten at enough chassidish homes and have never seen everyone drinking from the same cup.
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shanie5




 
 
 
 

Post Thu, Jan 21 2021, 1:38 pm
Dh makes kiddush. He pours some of the kiddush into a cup that's mostly full with grape juice or wine. He then drinks from his cup while I either pour out for everyone else, or pour some into my cup and pass it down the table for everyone to pour into their cups.
If we have a very full table, dh pours kiddush into 2 prefilled cups and they get passed down each side of the table.
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essie14




 
 
 
 

Post Thu, Jan 21 2021, 1:46 pm
shanie5 wrote:
Dh makes kiddush. He pours some of the kiddush into a cup that's mostly full with grape juice or wine. He then drinks from his cup while I either pour out for everyone else, or pour some into my cup and pass it down the table for everyone to pour into their cups.
If we have a very full table, dh pours kiddush into 2 prefilled cups and they get passed down each side of the table.

That's what we do. I have a cute small pitcher (meant to be used for cream for coffee but we use for kiddush) that I fill with grape juice before kiddush, DH pours a bit into it before he sips.
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chanchy123




 
 
 
 

Post Thu, Jan 21 2021, 1:48 pm
No, he pours some for himself in another glass sips from that and then gives everyone else, we do that also when we have no guests, my father does the same.
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amother




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Post Thu, Jan 21 2021, 1:54 pm
amother [ OP ] wrote:
When you have guests and your husband makes kiddush, does he sip from his becher first, then pour from his cup into the little cups?

Ewww.
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zaq




 
 
 
 

Post Thu, Jan 21 2021, 4:31 pm
chanchy123 wrote:
No, he pours some for himself in another glass sips from that and then gives everyone else, we do that also when we have no guests, my father does the same.


Same here.
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