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pooki




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Feb 14 2021, 11:35 am
Hi all,
My 12 year old daughter recently grew some over the lip facial hair. She doesn't realize. I do, her little brother told her she has, but she thinks its just like a shadow from her nose Smile
Do I tell her the truth and see if she wants it removed?
or wait for her to figure it out?
And if I opt for removal whats the best way to get rid of it for someone her age.
she has darker skin so bleaching wouldn't work.
Thanks
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amother
Denim


 

Post Sun, Feb 14 2021, 11:36 am
Electrolysis is best. Just suggest it to her in a matter of fact way. She's most likely aware, just embarrassed to say anything.
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amother
Babyblue


 

Post Sun, Feb 14 2021, 11:39 am
She has to be ready for electrolysis because it hurts. Let her try a waxing first and then see if she can handle upgrading to electrolysis.
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tweety1




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Feb 14 2021, 11:41 am
My dd too has it. I'm gonna do laser. Waiting for her periods to regulate first.
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honey36




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Feb 14 2021, 11:49 am
If you have the money, do electrolysis! I had the same issue when I was your daughters age and was to embarrassed to admit it to anyone or ask my mom what to do. I ended up waiting till I was 16 to ask to get electrolysis and then I was very happy. but was so self conscious those 4 years and wish I did it sooner.
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amother
Powderblue


 

Post Sun, Feb 14 2021, 3:17 pm
I would not point it out unless she does. There’s no law against it and it’s pretty common so no reason to make her feel self conscious if she isn’t already (they’ll be enough of that in the next fe years 😫)
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amother
Scarlet


 

Post Sun, Feb 14 2021, 4:09 pm
She first has to go through puberty before she can start with h electrolysis. Recommended age is 16 years.

She can have it bleached at this age. In a year or so, she can start waxing.

Removing hair is no joke, hair growth works with hormones.
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trixx




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Feb 14 2021, 4:11 pm
I'd first give her this - it really is painless
https://www.amazon.com/Finishi.....9GTT/
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amother
Honeydew


 

Post Sun, Feb 14 2021, 4:15 pm
Jolen bleach.
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tweety1




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Feb 14 2021, 4:28 pm
amother [ Scarlet ] wrote:
She first has to go through puberty before she can start with h electrolysis. Recommended age is 16 years.

She can have it bleached at this age. In a year or so, she can start waxing.

Removing hair is no joke, hair growth works with hormones.

That's exactly why I'm waiting. DD is 16 already but isn't regulated yet so I'm waiting. She knows. We had a discussion and she bh understands.
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amother
Tangerine


 

Post Sun, Feb 14 2021, 4:39 pm
my 18 year old dd just started electrolosis you need to wait until her body matures the best thing for now is wax and later on electrolosis it is painful but get her the emla cream which numbs it before electrosis. don't make her feel self conscience about it as it is a part of life and nothing she can do about it except for hair removal. My dd has been going for waxing since elementary school and just now started electrolosis also make sure to take her to someone reliable ask other people in your area whom they use and trust.
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amother
Slateblue


 

Post Sun, Feb 14 2021, 5:35 pm
My 3year old already(!!!??) Since she was2 or 3, has dark hair upper lip. Ugh Sad
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