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avrahamama


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Sun, Feb 21 2021, 3:01 pm
Maybe she needs help. Can't you just knock and see if you can help her get out the door. Maybe she isn't trying to be rude, she's just not ok.
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Sun, Feb 21 2021, 3:38 pm
OP, have you had any contact with her today? Sounds like she did her best to reach you. If she’s still there, there’s probably a reason. There might even be a reason she tried to tell you several times this morning.
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Sun, Feb 21 2021, 3:49 pm
As someone that hosts a lot of random guests for shabbos, they ALWAYS leave motzei shabbos. 95% leave by the zman since they left their family at home. Staying till Sunday and bothering the host is a little odd. Hopefully she will leave soon. Would you knock on her door and ask if all is ok and when she plans on leaving?
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Chayalle


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Sun, Feb 21 2021, 4:08 pm
I'm with OP, I've given out my guest room many times over the years, and it's understood that it's till M"SH, unless they ask about Sunday.
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Sun, Feb 21 2021, 4:29 pm
Why don't you go down and ask her genuinely if everything is ok?
If leaving Motzei Shabbos is the norm, then something unusual or worse could have come up.
Perhaps the woman lost her nerve when you didn't answer this morning.
If you have boys leaving for school on Sunday morning, I wouldn't think 9am is early.
If you don't want to get involved, at least call the baal simcha to clarify.
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