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Should I let my sister shower one child with attention 2+ times a week
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Let sister spend as much time as she wants with favored dc |
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21% |
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Limit sister’s time to the one class that Is not a problem |
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46% |
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Work to find a better balance so favored child could benefit more from my sister’s attention |
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19% |
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Not let my sister spend any one in one time with favored dc |
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12% |
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professor


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Fri, Apr 02 2021, 1:59 pm
It's technically ok for aunt to take little DD to a class while older DD is still in school. Since anyway older DD goes to a different class after school, she wouldn't feel neglected.
The other class she wants to sign her up for, is it also during DD school hours? If yes, why not
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Fri, Apr 02 2021, 2:57 pm
Yes, it hurts. And, I feel bad for oldest dd, but at the same time, it makes sense that since the oldest dd gives the aunt a harder time, the aunt would rather spend time with your other dd as its enjoyable/easier.
Most parents also have favorites. Like in my family, my inlaws favor their grandchildren from their daughter vs my kids only because I'm married to their son and they are closer to their dd. But, regarding your sister, the behavior of one child vs another makes sense that your sister has a right to choose who is easier"". This is life.
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