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PearlyGee




 
 
 
 

Post Thu, Apr 08 2021, 6:36 pm
If DH doesn't have a consistent schedule does he let you know when he'll be home? Does he call you when he's on the way?
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missmuffetsmum




 
 
 
 

Post Thu, Apr 08 2021, 6:46 pm
Always. But he tends to overshare this kind of thing - "Getting ready to leave" "Just left" "Coming up" kinda thing
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icedcoffee




 
 
 
 

Post Thu, Apr 08 2021, 6:54 pm
We constantly text throughout the day so even if he's coming home normal time, he'll still tell me that he's heading to the subway.
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teachkids




 
 
 
 

Post Thu, Apr 08 2021, 7:45 pm
I request that he does so I can have a sense of when dinner should be ready (most nights are reheating prepared food )
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applesbananas




 
 
 
 

Post Thu, Apr 08 2021, 7:50 pm
Oops! Didn’t realized anon disabled. Way too much personal info abt dh job.

Yes, he tells me
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PearlyGee




 
 
 
 

Post Thu, Apr 08 2021, 8:40 pm
Ok was just curious as was in the park with my sis earlier and DH called that he's on his way home and eta 35 min later and sis found it weird. But she is the jealous type....

Wouldn't change anything as I appreciate it was just curious if it's weird thanks for your replies
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lucky14




 
 
 
 

Post Thu, Apr 08 2021, 11:16 pm
Not weird at all. I think it's considerate of him.
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essie14




 
 
 
 

Post Fri, Apr 09 2021, 3:56 am
Yes.
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Rabbit613




 
 
 
 

Post Fri, Apr 09 2021, 6:54 am
I normally text my husband and ask him what time to expect him home.
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ddmom




 
 
 
 

Post Fri, Apr 09 2021, 7:44 am
My husband used to tell me a little before,"I think I'll be done soon..."we changed it to "I'm in the car,I just left" because I was getting too frustrated when it didn't happen!!
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chanar




 
 
 
 

Post Fri, Apr 09 2021, 8:36 am
Mine doesn’t have a set time, he often comes home late, and there are often emergencies that crop up. we briefly discuss his schedule in the morning, so I’ll usually know when it’s going to be a very late day, but he’l call or txt when he’s on the way home..
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singleagain




 
 
 
 

Post Fri, Apr 09 2021, 8:40 am
I live with my parents. And I share my location on my phone with them.. especially since I got my own car and they can't track it. Makes life easier for us bc they can check that I'm still at work or on the way home and I don't have to deal with constant texts.
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meme6




 
 
 
 

Post Fri, Apr 09 2021, 8:46 am
PearlyGee wrote:
Ok was just curious as was in the park with my sis earlier and DH called that he's on his way home and eta 35 min later and sis found it weird. But she is the jealous type....

Wouldn't change anything as I appreciate it was just curious if it's weird thanks for your replies


Every couple has there dynamics I learned that a long time ago. My husband doesn’t have a set schedule , so no he won’t call etc but if I call him I get answers or I will let him know I will need his help and he will be home etc. supper if he’s home is good if not he eats later or skips supper.
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BatyaEsther




 
 
 
 

Post Fri, Apr 09 2021, 9:14 am
Common curtesy and I extend the same respect to him. It’s just nice manners.
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HonesttoGod




 
 
 
 

Post Fri, Apr 09 2021, 1:00 pm
Sometimes he does sometimes he doesn’t.
Usually I call him at WHatevr late hour I get bored and ask if he has an eta.
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agreer




 
 
 
 

Post Fri, Apr 09 2021, 1:27 pm
My DH usually doesn't call, but I know his general schedule. He has busy seasons when he works later and quieter seasons when he's home earlier.

However, when we changed the clocks and his mincha/maariv schedule changed, we discussed when to have dinner ready for him. If he is late, I just warm it up.
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gingleale




 
 
 
 

Post Fri, Apr 09 2021, 1:47 pm
Always. When he was commuting he would call when he left the office and then text me when his bus left port authority.
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zaq




 
 
 
 

Post Fri, Apr 09 2021, 2:16 pm
You should have enabled anonymous posting if you wanted honest answers.
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PearlyGee




 
 
 
 

Post Fri, Apr 09 2021, 4:14 pm
zaq wrote:
You should have enabled anonymous posting if you wanted honest answers.


Haha 🤣 probably true but they disabled it 🙇‍♀️
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happyfaces




 
 
 
 

Post Fri, Apr 09 2021, 4:17 pm
zaq wrote:
You should have enabled anonymous posting if you wanted honest answers.


This!
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