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amother




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Post Sun, May 09 2021, 9:01 am
I wear size queen
I still get horrible rashes/burns on my inner thighs from the stockings
I wear the largest size that melas has

What other options do I have?
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octopus




 
 
 
 

Post Sun, May 09 2021, 9:08 am
Skimmies. Then stockings.
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octopus




 
 
 
 

Post Sun, May 09 2021, 9:09 am
https://www.macys.com/shop/pro.....85919
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amother




Mustard
 

Post Sun, May 09 2021, 9:18 am
I've had similar issues, and the anti chafe shorts are a lifesaver!!!! With stockings they are less comfortable but still better than the pain.

I also recently ordered this brand of stockings and found them much more comfortable than MeMoi (and tear less)

https://shoppersparadisenj.com.....6189/
https://shoppersparadisenj.com.....7649/
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amother




Coffee
 

Post Sun, May 09 2021, 9:23 am
amother [ Mustard ] wrote:
I've had similar issues, and the anti chafe shorts are a lifesaver!!!! With stockings they are less comfortable but still better than the pain.

I also recently ordered this brand of stockings and found them much more comfortable than MeMoi (and tear less)

https://shoppersparadisenj.com.....6189/
https://shoppersparadisenj.com.....7649/


Is the control top good in the second one?
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amother




Ginger
 

Post Sun, May 09 2021, 9:24 am
For this reason alone, the chaffing, I have not worn stockings in probably over two decades.
But in my community I can wear biker shorts or leggings.
If you must wear stockings, what about knee highs and biker shorts?
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amother




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Post Sun, May 09 2021, 9:26 am
I wear the largest size melas with bike shorts (Torrid, size 4) under it.
I’m 400 lbs. Until I found this solution was so painful! So then I have had no issue.
Hope it helps!
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scruffy




 
 
 
 

Post Sun, May 09 2021, 9:40 am
amother [ Mustard ] wrote:
I've had similar issues, and the anti chafe shorts are a lifesaver!!!! With stockings they are less comfortable but still better than the pain.

I also recently ordered this brand of stockings and found them much more comfortable than MeMoi (and tear less)

https://shoppersparadisenj.com.....6189/
https://shoppersparadisenj.com.....7649/


Yes!! I also recently switched from Memoi to Esatto! Love their tights and they definitely tear less. Very very comfortable.
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amother




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Post Sun, May 09 2021, 10:48 am
Excuse my ignorance.... Biker shorts are like short leggings? I try to wear leggings year round but when it's summer now and simchas/shabbos, I need clear stockings that look more natural...
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amother




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Post Sun, May 09 2021, 10:48 am
octopus wrote:
Skimmies. Then stockings.


Are skimmies and biker shorts the same? I just googled. Never heard of this
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amother




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Post Sun, May 09 2021, 10:50 am
amother [ Mustard ] wrote:
I've had similar issues, and the anti chafe shorts are a lifesaver!!!! With stockings they are less comfortable but still better than the pain.

I also recently ordered this brand of stockings and found them much more comfortable than MeMoi (and tear less)

https://shoppersparadisenj.com.....6189/
https://shoppersparadisenj.com.....7649/


Do you wear these with or without biker shorts?

I'm appreciating the responses everyone. Thank you!!! I knew there had to be hope and that you ladies can help
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amother




Bisque
 

Post Sun, May 09 2021, 10:58 am
amother [ Babypink ] wrote:
I wear the largest size melas with bike shorts (Torrid, size 4) under it.
I’m 400 lbs. Until I found this solution was so painful! So then I have had no issue.
Hope it helps!


I weigh just under 300 and melas doesn’t fit me. I’ve been struggling for a year since Berkshire changed how they make their stockings. Can you post exactly what you wear?

I’ve been wearing levante however it falls down. I just found memoi curvy on Amazon which has control top. But the legs are to long and have no support.
I sometimes stay in because I can’t find stockings.
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amother




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Post Sun, May 09 2021, 11:48 am
amother [ Bisque ] wrote:
I weigh just under 300 and melas doesn’t fit me. I’ve been struggling for a year since Berkshire changed how they make their stockings. Can you post exactly what you wear?

I’ve been wearing levante however it falls down. I just found memoi curvy on Amazon which has control top. But the legs are to long and have no support.
I sometimes stay in because I can’t find stockings.


I wear Melas Q1-Q2, with biker shorts from Torrid (size 4) underneath it. It would never work w/o the shorts. The tights are pulled so thin on top that it would hurt like hell otherwise. I’m a 4x (just realized weight isn’t always the best metric as it doesn’t take bone mass/muscle into account) and it works. But believe me, would be impossible without the shorts. I have multiple pairs and use them daily like underwear with everything I wear.

https://www.torrid.com/product.....art=1
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amother




Bisque
 

Post Sun, May 09 2021, 12:10 pm
amother [ Babypink ] wrote:
I wear Melas Q1-Q2, with biker shorts from Torrid (size 4) underneath it. It would never work w/o the shorts. The tights are pulled so thin on top that it would hurt like hell otherwise. I’m a 4x (just realized weight isn’t always the best metric as it doesn’t take bone mass/muscle into account) and it works. But believe me, would be impossible without the shorts. I have multiple pairs and use them daily like underwear with everything I wear.

https://www.torrid.com/product.....art=1


I’m probably a 4 or 5x and couldn’t get it up. I tried the escato as well but again could barely squeeze in to them. I carry the weight around my waist a lot.


You wear the shorts on top of the stockings? Do you dry the shorts?
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amother




Babypink
 

Post Sun, May 09 2021, 1:04 pm
amother [ Bisque ] wrote:
I’m probably a 4 or 5x and couldn’t get it up. I tried the escato as well but again could barely squeeze in to them. I carry the weight around my waist a lot.


You wear the shorts on top of the stockings? Do you dry the shorts?


Under. I wouldn’t be able to get them on on top.
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amother




Royalblue
 

Post Sun, May 09 2021, 1:09 pm
I have stopped wearing stockings because I simply cannot deal with wrestling myself into them, sweating like a maniac in them, and then having burns on my inner thighs. I believe tznius-wise that I should be wearing them, but I just can't deal with it anymore and DH doesn't care so unless I lose a lot of weight, I'm just done.
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alef12




 
 
 
 

Post Sun, May 09 2021, 1:10 pm
https://hipstiks.com/
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amother




Orchid
 

Post Sun, May 09 2021, 1:14 pm
its interesting. I have the oposite problem. I am overweight (albeit not extremely) but have huge huge thights. I have ALWAYS (even after weightloss or as a teenager when Iw asnt SO overweight) had terible rashes and infections on my inner thighs when I did NOT wear tights. I tried so many things like powder, antiboptical cream, deodorants, silicon gel, etc.

there is just NOW AY I can wear a (maxi) skrt without thick tights. even today I wera 40 or 60 den EVERY DAY. in my community it would be fine to wear socks or knee highs (depending on skirt length) but I cant. after half a day I have terrible pain and red skin on my inner thighs.

I could wear biker shorts. but I feel hotter in cotton biker shorts plus a skirt, than 40 den tights and skirt.

how do you manage without tights?
I wish there was a solution.

the only cosmetic surgery I would ever do is to reduce my inner tights significantly (which when wearing tzniusig clothes one probably would hardly notice). it would be only to end this stupid problem and NOT for beauty reasons.

Sad
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amother




Babypink
 

Post Sun, May 09 2021, 1:30 pm
I was recently reading a Reddit thread about the sexism of men wearing boxers to prevent chafing, while for women we call it chub rub and have this unrealistic standard that there should be this huge thigh gap.
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amother




Bisque
 

Post Sun, May 09 2021, 2:45 pm
amother [ Babypink ] wrote:
Under. I wouldn’t be able to get them on on top.



Just to clarify you wear underwear, shorts than stockings? I can’t get stockings on like this!!

I was out trying to get errands done for my family and had to go home because my stockings refuse to stay up!!!!!!!
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