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amother
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Post Sun, Jun 06 2021, 10:26 pm
My 18 year old daughter needs some clarity . She is an extraordinary girl. She and I f eel it's best for her to talk to someone to help her have some guidance . I can give more details if needed. She doesn't want a social worker. More like an insightful wise, older woman. I suggested rebetzin bassie Cohen but she feels like she would be too intimidating For her . Any tips?
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amother
Blueberry


 

Post Sun, Jun 06 2021, 11:02 pm
Mrs. Yael Kaisman
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ellacoe




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jun 06 2021, 11:02 pm
Would she be open to speaking to a Coach?
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amother
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Post Sun, Jun 06 2021, 11:25 pm
Mrs Yael kaisman is a great one. You think she would be available for private time?
also I ddont think she would be open to a coach. She speçificaly asked for a bubby so she can be comfortable with.
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ellacoe




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jun 06 2021, 11:43 pm
amother [ OP ] wrote:
Mrs Yael kaisman is a great one. You think she would be available for private time?
also I ddont think she would be open to a coach. She speçificaly asked for a bubby so she can be comfortable with.


Sorry I meant older coach who is a Bubby Smile
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amother
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Post Mon, Jun 07 2021, 12:09 am
Yeah, but she has to look like a bubby or rebetzzin...For her to feel comfortable. Not just a "grandma". . Some look young and with it and that won't work for her.
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amother
Seafoam


 

Post Mon, Jun 07 2021, 12:11 am
amother [ OP ] wrote:
Yeah, but she has to look like a bubby or rebetzzin...For her to feel comfortable. Not just a "grandma". . Some look you and with it and rinsing work for her.


That's a very specific request.
Why does she "need" a bubby to feel comfortable?

Is this clarity for shidduchim?
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amother
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Post Mon, Jun 07 2021, 12:13 am
amother [ Seafoam ] wrote:
That's a very specific request.
Why does she "need" a bubby to feel comfortable?

Is this clarity for shidduchim?
I know it is specific. But that is how she feels. Yes for shiduchim.
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amother
DarkPurple


 

Post Mon, Jun 07 2021, 12:16 am
Does it have to be in person, or can it be over the phone?
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amother
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Post Mon, Jun 07 2021, 12:53 am
It probably can be over the phone. But I don't think this is a one time thing. I think she needs someone who can guide her and be there for her on a constant basis.
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amother
Burlywood


 

Post Mon, Jun 07 2021, 12:59 am
what school did she go to? maybe a specific teacher can be helpful
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amother
DarkPurple


 

Post Mon, Jun 07 2021, 1:06 am
What's your daughter's style/type?
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Chayalle




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Jun 07 2021, 8:10 am
Maybe Mrs. Leah Trenk
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Turquoise3




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Jun 07 2021, 8:23 am
Mrs.E.G. Krishevsky
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amother
Vanilla


 

Post Mon, Jun 07 2021, 8:46 am
At 18 does she need guidance for shidduchim? Maybe she just needs time.
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amother
DarkRed


 

Post Mon, Jun 07 2021, 9:11 am
amother [ OP ] wrote:
Yeah, but she has to look like a bubby or rebetzzin...For her to feel comfortable. Not just a "grandma". . Some look young and with it and that won't work for her.

I totally get it. I'm like that too.
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amother
Daphne


 

Post Mon, Jun 07 2021, 9:42 am
I was also thinking about reb Cohen.
Does reb gissinger meet with people? I never met her but I read about her in r gissingers book
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amother
Blonde


 

Post Mon, Jun 07 2021, 9:44 am
amother [ Vanilla ] wrote:
At 18 does she need guidance for shidduchim? Maybe she just needs time.

I agree.
18 is still pretty young. Did she just graduate high school? Go to seminary? Does she have a job?
Make sure that is in place before jumping into the shidduch world! Most girls don't get suggestions till at least 19 these days when they are a bit more settled.
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amother
Wine


 

Post Mon, Jun 07 2021, 10:50 am
I have spoken to Reb. Cohen in person a couple of times. I found her to be extremely down to earth and practical. Maybe your daughter would be willing to give it a try once and see if she feels intimidated? She doesn't need to follow up if she's uncomfortable doing so...
If she's 18, did she have a teacher who she respected, or whose opinion she would trust? I'd imagine most would be open to some phone conversations to help a student
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amother
Tuberose


 

Post Mon, Jun 07 2021, 11:25 am
I called rebbetzin Cohen when I had sensitive parenting questions and I found her to be extremely warm, caring and helpful. I don't think she gives off an intimidating feeling to her. Maybe call her yourself and discuss the situation with her and feel her out...
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