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amother
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 Wed, Jul 07 2021, 12:32 pm
Bh we'll be going to e"y very soon
We are israeli so we can get in...
We havent made a kiddush yet for our DD shes 6 mo kah
I would like to make a kiddush in e"y by my in laws as we dont have any family here....
Is it rude to ask my mil if I can host it by her? it wont cause any extra cooking on her end as she is cooking anyway
all of our siblings/in laws are coming over for that first shabbos we're there so I thought it would be a nice time to get together...
its been hard for us missing brissim, vorts, weddings this past year. I thought it would be nice to get together as a fam
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amother
Wallflower
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Wed, Jul 07 2021, 12:35 pm
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I think it’s totally fine.
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abound
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Wed, Jul 07 2021, 12:36 pm
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Perfectly nice!! make sure to buy the kugels, cajes, papergoods yourself
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amother
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Wed, Jul 07 2021, 12:41 pm
| abound wrote: | | Perfectly nice!! make sure to buy the kugels, cajes, papergoods yourself |
thanks.
if my mil is making the meals, I should offer to make a dessert table?
do u think its a nice idea to do it in dh's shul?
my mil is a baker shes the type to get offended if I ask and want to bake everything herself
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amother
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Wed, Jul 07 2021, 12:43 pm
we cant!! were surprising her. only my FIL and siblings know 
she hasnt seen us in two years or met the baby!
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amother
Geranium
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Wed, Jul 07 2021, 12:44 pm
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For sure do it by her! She will hopefully be honored by it. I would be!
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amother
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Wed, Jul 07 2021, 12:45 pm
we have a whatsapp chat
shell think its a regular shabbos
all of the in laws are bringing a dish so its not much extra cooking for mil
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amother
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Wed, Jul 07 2021, 12:45 pm
thanks for the chizuk everyone
ive never hosted a kiddush before
any ideas of what I can do?
what types of cookies to make?
what do we even do at a kiddush?
and does anyone know a gemach in e"y for platters or lucite trays, tableclothes?
soo many qs
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amother
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Wed, Jul 07 2021, 5:28 pm
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I don’t think you should surprise her with a kiddush, tell her and take charge of the desserts.
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FranticFrummie
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Wed, Jul 07 2021, 5:30 pm
Some people don't take well to surprises, even really good ones.
I'd tell her and let her help you with all of the planning.
Does she have cleaning help? If not, pay for her to have a cleaning lady come in after Shabbos and do all the tidying up so that MIL can rest and enjoy the baby.
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amother
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Wed, Jul 07 2021, 5:32 pm
good point thanks
she knows all the siblings are coming that shabbat
my SIL told my MIL its for a reunion and we are going to surprise her by also being there
bezh hope it works
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