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Post Sun, Jul 18 2021, 4:28 pm
amother [ OP ] wrote:
I'm confused. So I guess some hold you can touch after fast and some hold no touching until chatzos tomorrow


I think they're saying that some hold you can stop keeping harchakos after chatzos today? I don't think anyone says you have to continue into tomorrow. Now I'm wondering how I hold.
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Post Sun, Jul 18 2021, 4:35 pm
OP I’m going to reiterate that you speak with your rav. You seem very confused, and it won’t help you to hear the many different opinions here. We don’t hold any harchakos. Some may hold some harchakos. Some may hold all harchakos. Some may hold they must be kept until tomorrow. Some hold may hold they must be kept until the end of the fast. Some may hold that as of chatzos today harchakos don’t need to be kept anymore. All of these differing opinions will not help you to figure out which is the right way for you.
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Post Sun, Jul 18 2021, 4:37 pm
amother [ OP ] wrote:
Oh this! Maybe this is what I'm getting confused about- I think no tashmish tonight also. But yes touch?


Yes, for us.
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Post Sun, Jul 18 2021, 4:38 pm
All the mikvahs are open tonight.......
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Post Sun, Jul 18 2021, 4:42 pm
amother [ OP ] wrote:
I'm confused. So I guess some hold you can touch after fast and some hold no touching until chatzos tomorrow


Chatzos today!
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Post Sun, Jul 18 2021, 4:48 pm
amother [ Burntblack ] wrote:
All the mikvahs are open tonight.......


Right. We hold that no intimacy tonight only if it's mikvah night. But yes hugging/kissing.
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Post Sun, Jul 18 2021, 5:44 pm
We hold no touching after end of fast didnt seperate beds
, it's now 11:44 so for us almost beditme so we are not going to get ''lucky'' cuz we are shattered..
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