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happy chick
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 Thu, Jul 22 2021, 9:54 am
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How would you write that a child should give nachas to his parents when they're divorced? Do you write "your parents should have much nachas from you?" "Your mother and father should have much nachas?". Any other ideas?
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Ema of 5
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Thu, Jul 22 2021, 10:05 am
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Whether married or divorced, the parents are still the parents. I don’t see why it would be any different if they are married or if they are not.
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lkwdlady
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Thu, Jul 22 2021, 10:07 am
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You should bring nachas to your family
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Chayalle
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Thu, Jul 22 2021, 10:51 am
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I would think a child of divorced parents does not need this pointed out to him/her at every stage in their life. They feel different enough. Why make distinctions where it's not necessary.
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cnc
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Thu, Jul 22 2021, 11:49 am
Same as everyone else
May you bring much nachas to your family etc
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happy chick
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Thu, Jul 22 2021, 12:14 pm
Thank you, all. My point was NOT to point it out, but I wanted to write in a way that wouldn't c"v hurt the child.
Writing your family sounds very good. Thanks to all who suggested that.
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amother
Blueberry
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Thu, Jul 22 2021, 12:19 pm
I understand the question. It's a matter of sensitivity and not wanting a gift to bring up negative feelings because of the wording in the card.
Unfortunately, I lost a sibling last year. Us remaining siblings have struggled with sending gifts to our parents and wondering how to sign the card. Do we write "From all of us" and have our parents think that's no longer the case? Or is it better to sign our names individually but then there's a glaring omission? It's not so simple.
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amother
Blushpink
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Thu, Jul 22 2021, 12:31 pm
| amother [ Blueberry ] wrote: | I understand the question. It's a matter of sensitivity and not wanting a gift to bring up negative feelings because of the wording in the card.
Unfortunately, I lost a sibling last year. Us remaining siblings have struggled with sending gifts to our parents and wondering how to sign the card. Do we write "From all of us" and have our parents think that's no longer the case? Or is it better to sign our names individually but then there's a glaring omission? It's not so simple. |
When we were in that situation we signed
"from your children" until my sister in law remarried. Now we sign our names with her and her husbands name listed.
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essie14
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Thu, Jul 22 2021, 12:35 pm
| amother [ Blushpink ] wrote: | When we were in that situation we signed
"from your children" until my sister in law remarried. Now we sign our names with her and her husbands name listed. |
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