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southernbubby




 
 
 
 

Post Thu, Jul 22 2021, 6:42 pm
Julia struggles to accept that Aron wants to be frum and Kveller reminds us that we can't always pick the way our kids turn out. Aron even tells her that he loves her the way she is.

Don't we all wish that we could be loved the way we are?
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Chickensoupprof




 
 
 
 

Post Thu, Jul 22 2021, 6:59 pm
Yeah, and not that we need to get a fix first
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amother




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Post Thu, Jul 22 2021, 7:03 pm
This is bringing tears to my eyes. What a beautiful OP. How I long to feel this with even one person and what a great reminder to do this for others in our lives
What a precious gift
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NotInNJMommy




 
 
 
 

Post Thu, Jul 22 2021, 8:12 pm
Yup. Good food for thought.
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amother




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Post Thu, Jul 22 2021, 11:00 pm
southernbubby wrote:
Julia struggles to accept that Aron wants to be frum and Kveller reminds us that we can't always pick the way our kids turn out. Aron even tells her that he loves her the way she is.


Yes, nice thought if we assume that what we see on the show and hear in interviews is more true than false (ratings, ratings, ratings, money, money, money).

I think only family members know whats really happening in that family.
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Crookshanks




 
 
 
 

Post Fri, Jul 23 2021, 12:18 am
What's Kveller?
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southernbubby




 
 
 
 

Post Fri, Jul 23 2021, 12:21 am
amother [ Orange ] wrote:
Yes, nice thought if we assume that what we see on the show and hear in interviews is more true than false (ratings, ratings, ratings, money, money, money).

I think only family members know whats really happening in that family.


But the point is that she has to accept her son as he is rather than what she wants him to be. Maybe in real life she is more accepting of his choice.
Kveller is saying that we don't get to pick out our kids. My father used to tell us that when he wanted kids, he went to angel Heaven and picked out the ones that he thought were cute and the angel in charge clipped off the wings and gave him a baby. It makes a nice story when kids are too young to know what really happens but in reality, we have to accept the child that Hashem sends us
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southernbubby




 
 
 
 

Post Fri, Jul 23 2021, 12:22 am
Crookshanks wrote:
What's Kveller?


A website that shows up in my emails.
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